Ok...my current girlfriend is well behaved...she doesnt give me any hassle about going out with my lad mates because she trusts me..and im not tha kinda guy that moans either, she needs her friends as much as i need mine. But so many of my friends get hassle from their girls about this constantly. Why??
2006-09-25 23:58:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The obvious reason is that they are not as secure within their relationship as you are in yours.
Also - a lot of girls give grief when the get it in return - are you sure your mates aren't cribbing when their girlfriends head out?
Have their women any reason not to trust them - or your mates typical ladies men!!?
The reasons are endless - but I know that anyone that is in a loving trustworthy happy relationship doesnt have a reason to crib! Seems like you've got it perfect!
2006-09-26 00:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity. If both parties trust each other and the mixing with friends is an agreed part of ther relationship - no problem, but some people just don't/can't trust that nothing will happen. That's life. Be glad that you are in a stable relationship which does appear to have trust on either side and don't let your mates pull you down.
2006-09-26 00:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by geegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infidelity - a lot of men aren't like you and once they have a shed load of beer inside them, will turn into budding Casanova's. Girls can be much the same, and also get hassle of their boyfriends when they are planning a boozy night out with friends. It's all as you say down to trust - but alcohol can do much damage to any relationship
2006-09-26 01:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women shouldn't hassle guys about going out with their mates, and vice versa. As you say, we all need a bit of space and going out with friends is a good thing. Maybe something happened to those women, like they've been cheated on or they have a good reason to worry if their boyfriends go out with their mates?
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2006-09-26 00:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by b b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question! I think it because of the woman's personal insecurities maybe she has been cheated on in the past! But I cant be personally be doing with people like that that are possessive! Be assure theres men out there that are the same!
2006-09-26 01:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Glitterstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because maybe there are inscurites in the realtionship, who knows, infact alot of women are like this because, guys lie, cheat, and lie even more, they are all jerks u just gotta pick the better jerk. so as long as your girlfriend aint like that be happy, personally i let my boyfriend do what ever he wants, but he already know the rule about being with me. NO stripclubs, or dances... u know. so as long as he doesnt do that and has a good time with his peeps. then im good. he could even play xbox all night wit his friends ova, cause i would be right there playin it wit them, but thats just me.
2006-09-26 00:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl, but I can sympathise with your mates. I have never understood why some ladies seem to get into such a state about there significant others. It's so strange that they torture themselves, and their boyfriends. Sorry I can't help - just as baffled as you!
2006-09-26 00:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They are maybe not in the same trusting relationship as you, they may have done something to upset there girl in the past and you don't know!!!! x
2006-09-26 00:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you only ought to except that maximum adult adult males are like this ! All they do is search for is sex each and each of the time, thats only the way thieir minds paintings. you only ought to locate the right guy that dosn't cope with you undesirable and rescepts you. sturdy success
2016-11-24 19:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋