actually he has broken my faith, i had shared some secrets with him & as per me he has shared with my cousin sis , i am really depressed, on whole i should stop talking to him but he has stopped talking to me . he wants me to talk first but i wanna that he should say sorry to me (i can't leave talking with him , he is very special) i will be really thankful to u ,if u help me out
2006-09-24 00:55:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you should firstly ask him why did he tell out your secrets...then if he doesnt admit or didnt even say sorry, i think you should ignore him for a while until he realises his mistakes and apologise to you =)
2006-09-24 01:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey diya its nice to c u r bro is very special to u .. this kind of situation can be solved only when u guys talk leving u r ego at a side. Agreed..Its u r bro mistake he shouldnt have said u r secrets to u r cousin sis but mistakes do happen dear in life just talk to him and make him realize his mistake by saying how special he is for u and express u r trust towards him for y u have tell u r secrets ..he will be sorry for that i am sure and then keep rocking and ya u r bro should be listening to u when u r talking no ego issues for both of u it willl surely help u .... all the best diya bye c u
2006-09-28 03:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by ahuja_sumit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be civil to him...If you don't feel like talking to him for a while, that's very understandable, but don't make it obvious to him that you're ignoring him. After some time has passed, ask him why he told your secrets. Maybe you did something that made him mad and you're not even aware you did it. Happens all the time with me and my brother.
I really hope everything works out!
2006-09-24 17:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Charly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelings. but your brother is a male with a nice male ego. I have faced this problem, the best solution is time. Just wait for some time, let his anger suppress a little and then go and have a face to face talk with him. In family or relationships, communication is the best way to keep them going. Tell him what exactly you feel.
2006-09-24 08:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be on a wrong opinion that your elder brother has shared your secret with your cousin sister. Since it is your inquisitiveness, you must talk to him first. He is elder to you - mind this also.
2006-09-24 08:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dear.. who s he ur brother know.. why still waiting for to ask sorry.. u told he s special to u.. so talk with him.. and try to explain the feelings of urs if he tell ur secret to any1.. no problem da .. go ahead.. I had no sister by birth da.. Think of my pro.. take care..
2006-09-27 08:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by visakagn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk to him first. Don't wait for him . You said " i cant leave him , he is very special" You have to move front. Dont wait for your brother. All the best
2006-09-24 08:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by paapu b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever stop talking to your brother because there is no one else in this world that can support and understand eachothers feelings than brother,sister.i know how it feels my brother stopped talking to me as well over an argument and he started it but it didnt matter to me who started it i just went and talked to him.so please just go and talk to your brother.
2006-09-24 09:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by begum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it an ego issue. Talk to him. It will be good for both of you
2006-09-25 00:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Truth ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him about the situation.
2006-09-24 07:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋