Family & Relationships - 24 September 2006

I have been with my husband for 8 years . He cheats constantly.. I used to cry all the time and believe he wouldnt do it again but he always does..So now I have no kind of feelings for him I see him as my roommate now.. I met someone 6 months ago and explained to him what I have been going through , And this person makes me feel whole again just by talking with him... I haven't made love to this man as of yet.. I haven't made love to my husband in 2 years.. But I am feeling the need to share my intimacy with this man... He says he will wait for me as long as I want too wait.. He says it is no rush and plus I want to be with him for a year before I can give myself to him... I would like to know from the Men And the Woman would it be considered cheating if I made love to this man.. I like to be honest and I want to let my husband know he has lost me forever and there is no turning back because i am tired of his lies... And he has no power over me anymore.. And I am loving myself...

2006-09-24 02:08:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He was my boyfriend for 7 years. but it's been 2 we are not together.

2006-09-24 02:04:02 · 15 answers · asked by C M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just need advice........

2006-09-24 02:03:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy but im going around with someone else and he came to know this. i think he likes me but im not sure so after that he told a common friend that he is going around with someone else n this friend told me nobady noes tht i like him. i dont know wat to do i cant ask him coz im not sure if he likes me but sometimes i get the feeling he is looking at me help!!! wat to do and i really like him alot . i know that im going out with one guy n have a crush on the other. but my bf is the perfect guy but i cant stop thinking about this crush should i forget him.... but how is he trying to make me jealous or wat

2006-09-24 02:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by cute gal 2 in Singles & Dating

I work & attend school full-time, thus have very little "free time"; I am on campus from 7:30am-12:30pm (M-F), & I am @ work from 1:00pm-10:00pm (M-F). Additionally, I am not free on Sat's until after 1:00pm, which only leaves me about 36 hrs b/w Sat. afteroon & Sun evening to do HW (which is still not nearly enough time) & to try to have some "down time" of my own.

Dilemma: My partner of 11.5 yrs does't help around the house; it is an absolute MESS! We have 3 dogs & 3 cats, whose upkeep is quite demanding. I am always the first one up @ 6:30am, therefore I always let the dogs out & feed all 6, & then get ready for school. Once ready, I wake her up & she takes me to school; she picks me up @ 12:30 to go to work. (note: we live 3-4 miles from campus)

We have food, but she refuses to cook anything & would rather eat out which costs a lot of $...the laundry is always behind...she doesn't clean the litter or the poops outside...she thinks I should do more, but I feel I do enough. Do I?

2006-09-24 02:03:09 · 17 answers · asked by Cassie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-24 02:02:59 · 9 answers · asked by NCD 1 in Singles & Dating

..mugs question but anyway.. do you have to sort yourself out first.. i'm not going to go through my stupid problems but i've gone through practically everything the hard way on my own.. i'm becoming really arrogant and i don't like it.. do you have to be happy to be happy.. oh and no religious freaks please..

2006-09-24 02:02:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Not only does he look at any female (Old, young included, putting me at a safety hazard) when driving, he also smokes at home and the car, badmouthes me 6 days a week, is absent once a week, and once a week give me a pounding. I didn't ever do anything so what did I do to deserve this? Does he just hate the fact that my mother painfully gave birth to me? Maybe he should give birth... By the way am I from a dysfuctional family based on the above? Please answer all uestions.

2006-09-24 02:02:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-24 02:01:32 · 14 answers · asked by Muskaan M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 02:00:23 · 7 answers · asked by dellw66 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My family keeps growing & because Christmas is a major tradition in my family, a few of us are trying to think up ideas on how to do the gift giving. Between my siblings, their spouses & the kids, we're at 18 people huddled around the tree on Christmas morning (+3 dogs).

This is how we currently do it: Each adult pulls a name & spends between $100-150 on them. Plus at least $30 per kid (7). We always buy for our parents regardless. The problem is that of obligation & Catholic guilt.

We all get into the gift giving spirit & before it's all over, everyone gets everyone gifts & can spend upwards of $1500.

So my mom, sister & I are trying to think up different ideas to make it less expensive. Two are:

1. Each family has their own Christmas & then later goes to my mom's house for dinner.

2. Everyone spends $100 on the adults & buys unisex gifts to put in stockings. Then have a white elephant.

Any ideas will be great.

*We would still prefer everyone be there all day.

2006-09-24 02:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by Kate 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mum passed away last year without telling me the truth. I am currently financially supporting this uncle of mine cos my mum told me to before she left me. I have older brothers and they prob don't know I'm only their half sis. Somehow I really don't wish to call him "dad" since I've been calling him "uncle" all these years. Deep down it hurts me to think that I'm only my bro's half sis. Should I tell my uncle that I know he's my dad or should I just act as per normal?

2006-09-24 01:57:53 · 15 answers · asked by anoccassionaloptimist 1 in Family

help me i need all the adivce i can get

2006-09-24 01:57:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why am I so board though I have plenty to do with my family? I mean I have a younger brother and a older sister but she dosen't do anything with us?

2006-09-24 01:56:13 · 10 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Family

umm.. you see, this guy in my class always tease me like i'm best in that certain subject, and he always look at me, and smiles, then he always come neer me and but not talk, then this cousin of him w/c was the bf of my bestfriend when i said i have a crush on this guy, not him, he said he's going to tell to his cousin whom i'm asking if he likes me, yeah i know that i'm one of the those girls guys go crazy over me, but im'too naive to know who are they?

2006-09-24 01:52:41 · 12 answers · asked by white_lady_claire 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many of you have a boyfriend/girlfriend that finds it almost impossible to see 2 sides of things sometimes? And when they are wrong, they find this really weird way to flip the script and put it on you?
How do you handle it versus fighting all the time?

2006-09-24 01:50:40 · 15 answers · asked by brittneyafoster 1 in Singles & Dating

My Best friend commited Suicide lastnight...........I'm trying to find a pome or something to read at her funral so if anyone could give me some websites or something

And one more thing i don't know how to tell the guy that liked her what happen any ideas how i could do that i am a rack my self and i need to know what to say to him

2006-09-24 01:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by tocute4kutie 1 in Friends

2006-09-24 01:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know its normal for men to turn their heads literally when driving a car and seeing a beautiful women, but he turns his head on old ladies and basically any form of a women. He even does it when his wife is in the car. Is he just unfaithful and disrespectful? Or what?

2006-09-24 01:47:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-24 01:46:38 · 20 answers · asked by @ndromed@ 1 in Weddings

i mean, someone who is good looking and knows it, he has way too much self confidence and thinks highly of himself (he's cute, smart, but unfortunately knows it). my goal is not to be just another ex-girl on his list, but for him to really think i'm special
opinions?
cheers :)

2006-09-24 01:42:19 · 25 answers · asked by lady xanax 3 in Singles & Dating

I have very low self confidence and dont find it easy at all to strike up a conversation with a stranger, when people talk to me i get nervous and stutter. i dont want to become a recluse/loner. please help.

2006-09-24 01:41:38 · 13 answers · asked by spens dad! 2 in Friends

likes to look at porn. Which bugs me. For whatever reasons, it just does. He looks at it way to much. I've offered to watch it WITH him, and even make one with him. I even offered a 3some.

Anyway, he keeps looking at it every time I'm not around. So I have freaked out on him twice and told him that it really bothers me. He promised to stop the first time, he didn't. He swore he would stop the second time, he didn't. And yesterday I found out he is STILL doing it ALL the time...this time I decided to take a different approach.Instead of freaking out,I cut him.
If he wants to look at porn by himself, then that is what he can do. But he can't do that and me at the same time.
He knows I'm mad at him for something, just because I wouldn't let him touch me last night.
Now, what I want to know is, am I taking the right approach? What should I do? I've invested a lot into this relationship, so I don't want to break up. But, I don't want to be lied to and I want him to respect my feelings

2006-09-24 01:39:12 · 25 answers · asked by thankgodformaryjane 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am only 13, but somehow it got out that I am well endowed and now girls much older than me are asking me to go out with them. Why would they be so interested so suddenly?

2006-09-24 01:37:10 · 8 answers · asked by Robert 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 01:37:08 · 14 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 01:36:27 · 29 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 01:34:04 · 18 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-24 01:33:21 · 21 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

My first love please help me

2006-09-24 01:33:20 · 7 answers · asked by shagun rathee 1 in Friends

2006-09-24 01:32:54 · 18 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating