how do you seduce a guy that's over-confident with himself?

Question

i mean, someone who is good looking and knows it, he has way too much self confidence and thinks highly of himself (he's cute, smart, but unfortunately knows it). my goal is not to be just another ex-girl on his list, but for him to really think i'm special
opinions?
cheers :)

Answer 1

First thing..........SEDUCING was a wrong word !! !
Second thing, this sort of guy will fall in love by using brain and not by using heart so please stop doing any childish acts (if you are doing already)
If you really want him.........be a girl of his defination.....turn yourself from a girl to a woman. Let him feel that you are not a kiddy stuff but a mature woman with brains...and I can bet $1 that he will be yours...
(Invite me for dinner if you guys could work out !!)

Answer 2

If this is the only lady he's paying interest to, confident, that is silly. If that is purely between the ladies individuals he likes, there is not any harm in hoping, yet there is an American expression that is going, "desire in one hand, sh!t in the different- see which one fills up first." preserving out solely for one man or woman who isn't fascinated is an exercising in futility.

Answer 3

Think about what you said 'you dont want to be just another ex' but that is exactly what you will be. Sounds like you just want to be like all the other girls and have him. I say find someone else if this one is so self centred it wouldnt be a really fun relationship,he'll have no time for you.

Answer 4

Do you really want to get so involved with someone who thinks that much of themselves? I mean healthy self esteem is one thing & being an jerk about it & thinking you're more than all that is another. From what I have seen, people who are like that, you only come as a second thought to their ego. I'm sure they will find someone who suits them as you would find someone who does think of you as special & amazing because after all, we get together with people who challenge us on a deep level.

Answer 5

Hmmm. If you succeed (no doubt you can) are you better off than you are now? Conceit only means he doesn't feel worthwhile and secure in himself. There aren't very many people in this world who would be happy living with such a person for a long time.

Answer 6

Just for your benefit, I fit the description of your guy (not sure about the good-looking part, but I'm sure overconfident as hell).

Don't throw yourself at him or make yourself appear an easy haul. I'm not sure about him but I'm drawn to girls who have something unique about them - be it a talent or a passion - rather than just another good-looking babe. Knowing your strengths is key, and it boosts your confidence too. That might be just the edge you need.

Answer 7

Sweetheart...don't play ANY games in love. Be yourself if you're in it for the long-term. If he falls in love with a facade that you cannot sustain for the rest of your life, then he will be disappointed when that facade vanishes (and it will).
If he cannot love you for yourself and who you are, then he's not the man for you.
My worry about such a man would be that he might never be able to stay with just one woman because he will see himself as so very very desired by any woman that passes by...but then maybe that's just my own insecurities.

Answer 8

my dear glad to hear that u like to have a long term relationship with him. but never ever go for look alone, some can be very sensational bf but i think u need a good and faithful husband who love u isn't it. get to know him as a friend, don't plunge right in for a relationship. the faster u go, the faster the relationship end. for me, i learn to go slow if i really like a gal. best wishes.

Answer 9

Why? I would not want to be a conceited person, sorry. He might think he is too good for you. Why put yourself through that? There are alot of good looking guys that are not stuck on themselves. Good luck.

Answer 10

The best way to seduce a guy like that is by TOTALLY ignoring him first.