My Best friend commited Suicide lastnight...........I'm trying to find a pome or something to read at her funral so if anyone could give me some websites or something
And one more thing i don't know how to tell the guy that liked her what happen any ideas how i could do that i am a rack my self and i need to know what to say to him
2006-09-24 01:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by tocute4kutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The guy that she liked and he liked her, i don't have his number even tho i knew him b4 her I do talk to him everyday online but i hardly get to see him so i don't know which would be better to send him a message on myspace saying that i have to talk to him asap or just to wait till he comes online or try to get his number
2006-09-24 01:58:47 · update #1
Please help! i need to know how to tell him!
2006-09-24 02:16:03 · update #2
First, please accept my condolences for your loss.
I admit, I'm not a huge fan of poetry, but even with that in mind, I think that you should probably just write a eulogy yourself; talk about why she was your best friend, what made her special to you, and maybe how you and others can continue to honor her memory best. At least, I think its better than a poem, because it came from you, and not from someone who didn't even know her.
As far as the guy goes, just tell him the truth as simply and plainly as possible. Don't dwell on it much; if you want to be there to comfort each other, that's fine but if not, then don't linger on it.
Again, I'm sorry for your loss, best of luck to you.
2006-09-24 01:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Motoko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First i'm soooo sorry and i think instead of saying something that someone wrote try to say something from the heart. And Second for the guy thing tell him it's extremlly important and tell him to meet u somewhere and tell him in person cause he may need a hug or something. There is this really good song called "How To Save A Life" By The Fray i don't kno what u would do with it but it's a really good friend song.
2006-09-24 02:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by GREATGRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so very very sorry for the pain you are going through. I have spoken at a couple of funerals and I talked about the person that had passed away. I talked about the good times. The special attributes that the person had. People think that funerals have to be sad and depressing. (And I agree, that it is hard to lose a loved one) But try to say something that will celebrate her life. It is okay to laugh at a funeral.
As with the guy that liked her.........you will just need to tell him straight out. Maybe take someone with you, just incase he freaks out. And hopefully the two of you can draw strength from each other.
God Bless you and you will get through this.
2006-09-24 02:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by tanyapmc0321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry about it, it must be really hard, but you must let go, so that your friend goes in peace.
here is a little poem you might like!
Peace my heart...
Peace, my heart, let the time for the parting be sweet.
Let it not be a death but completeness.
Let love melt into memory and pain into songs.
Let the flight through the sky end in the folding of the wings over the nest.
Let the last touch of your hands be gentle like the flower of the night.
Stand still, O Beautiful End, for a moment, and say your last words in silence.
I bow to you and hold up my lamp to light you on your way.
~Rabindranath Tagore
2006-09-24 02:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alex i'm sorry about your pal honey, it truly is distinct burden so that you'll be able to carry. you want to understand this wasn't your fault, and also you may't save wondering that you're able to have supply up it. my son also misplaced a pal an analogous excess of the summer season and he felt very in charge no longer being waiting to assist her out. you want to speak with a counselor in school or seek for suggestion from along with your mothers and fathers or a mentor, is time-honored to sense the way you do, yet please do not enable your self be depressed any more advantageous, i'm confident your pal does no longer desire you to be unhappy, %. up a pastime some aspect the your pal may have opt to do, which could be an outstanding thanks to undergo in ideas him and honor him, you're doing the right aspect by making use of putting your thoughts accessible even if is this kind, i am hoping i changed into waiting to assist some, take care
2016-11-23 18:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by ferree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i read this poem at my nannas funeral last year i think its beautiful
REMEMBER ME
Do not shed tears when I have gone
but smile instead because I have lived.
Do not shut your eyes and pray to God that I’ll come back
but open your eyes and see all that I have left behind.
I know your heart will be empty because you cannot see me
but still I want you to be full of the love we shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live only for yesterday
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of what happened
between us yesterday.
You can remember me and grieve that I have gone
or you can cherish my memory and let it live on.
You can cry and lose yourself, become distraught
and turn your back on the world
or you can do what I want - smile, wipe away the tears,
learn to love again and go on.
thats it
tell the person that liked them straight away they wont want to be lied to or to find out off someone else so tell them
2006-09-24 01:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss.
As for telling him you just tell him. There is no good way to do that.
So just be yourself and tell him.
As for a poem, I think you should just pour your own thoughts and feelings onto a piece of paper and let everything flow out.
It will mean more if it comes from the heart and not from a web page.
Again I am sorry and stay strong.
2006-09-24 01:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Biker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth....as for a poem, scour the internet. Poems are really personal, you may just want to write your own from the heart
Also, I'm sorry for your loss...I hope you friend has found peace with herself and that those who love her can learn to forgive her for taken her own life. I am sure she believed it to be the only solution and did not intend to hurt those she has.
2006-09-24 01:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by Venza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for your loss. perhaps you can write a story about your friend that tells of a happy moment together. you need to be strong and take care. i hope you talk to a counselor to help you. good luck.
2006-09-24 01:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I don't really know what else to say.
2006-09-24 01:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋