me and my x got a serious misunderstanding few weeks ago. we fought over the phone and hung me up everytime i contacted. i got disappointed and really hurt but i insist of looking for the posibilities that we are going to be fine again soon,however my hopes hung me up when i talked to him just few hours ago when he finally said that his tired of me already... i still love him more than any body else but i dont want to live for nothing. Please help me i really need some body to gave me advise.
2006-09-24 01:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by freak girl 021385 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Life gives us a lot of things that we have to learn how to deal with. All the situations you're going to endure throughout your life are only going to make you a stronger person. Yes, it's pain sometimes, but after a while you realize that you've learned from the situation at hand and can move on with your life. In this situation, if he is tired of you, than thats his choice. Maybe he feels the need to be adventurous or something. People are funny like that. At any rate, you should focus on you and start trying to see what there is to gain from this turn around of events. It's life.
2006-09-24 01:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by detroitkid17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any relationship comes a time where one of the parties needs to get out. It is sometimes a hurtful process but staying in a reltionship that is just one sided the hurt will become even worse. Rather except the possible break and move on in life
2006-09-24 08:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if your boyfriend got tired of all of the "drama" in the relationship. You might want to look at why the two of you fought all of the time. Are you mimicing someone else's behavior (like a parent)? It sounds as if you need to be authentic with him and tell him you are sorry and ask for another chance.
2006-09-24 08:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what... try to tell yourself that really love hurts! it happened to me before... my bf and i got separated over the phone... he told me that he is already tired with the situation and then told me that we should not see each other again... but you know, after just a few days he is the one who first called me and try to ask me for a reconciliation.... so, try to be more focused on what you have right now... maybe time will come that he will also realize that he really loves you... just give yourselves enough time and space to think of about everything.
2006-09-24 08:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by raindrops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on as he doesnt feel 4 u anymore,true love doesnt fade and cant b 4gotten but if it's 1 sided,wat can u do?u cant force him 2 love u.U'll get over him with time,Good luck
2006-09-24 08:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, things happen. Think of it as a minor set back. You will fall in love and then have your heart broken or break theirs as many tmes as it takes to find the real thing. Good Luck.
2006-09-24 08:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love like like and reaction has to be equal and opposite.
It was only illusion and not between you to from the begining.Realise this and stop being emotional about him.Misunderstanding are bound to take place between true lovers thay get resolved.find yourself a better friend.
2006-09-24 08:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by shribharatpshubh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If love really exist between the both of you, no misunderstanding can separate you for long.
2006-09-24 08:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his feeling for you are over so you must move on in your life you are not living for nothing,I hope that you love yourself enough and don't let this hold you back.good luck.
2006-09-24 08:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way love goes.
Find somebody else.
2006-09-24 08:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋