Hubby has now said after being married 18 months he doesnt want children (even though he has 3 from his past relationship). I havent got any, and dont know what to do - as he has always before said he wanted them,. Help!!!
2006-09-24 01:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by Sparkley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him now is a fine time to tell you this. If he insists on not having children then there will be no more sex. After fathering 3 himself, he does remember how children are conceived, right?
See how he handles that.
2006-09-24 01:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why , maybe his previous relationship hit trouble after having kids , or he's worried that by having more children his other kids may think they are no longer important and they might have told him this , My marriage ended about 18 months ago and my youngest daughter is very worried that i might marry again , then have a baby and not love her anymore , she's 8 now and feels very strongly about this , and keeps bringing it up in conversation to make sure I've got the point , talk with him and see if he will open up to you , be gentle with him though , he may feel embarrassed about it , have fun finding out , and when you do ask again if you want the solution
2006-09-24 09:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by saint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remarried and said from start no more children as I kept the from the first marriage. It still caused problems as women's maternal instinct / body clock etc. But if he lied and youv only been married 18 months the only answer is get out or live a life suffering in silence and holding a grudge against him and that is not a good result.
If you pressure him it will probably end in disaster with you being a single parent.
UHHHHHHG
SO YOUR CALL
2006-09-24 08:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Todd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very selfish and not considering your feelings..you should talk to him and let him know how much this upsets you..if he is a caring man he will listen and take your feelings on board
2006-09-24 08:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Liz S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he should of said before you married , just get pregnant and remind him of his vows, he'll have to stick by you if he meant them.
2006-09-24 08:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh so sad. he doesnot want now or forever.
2006-09-24 08:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by boathouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that was very fair of him...you both need a counselor...
2006-09-24 08:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist has he said why the change and the i would ask why
2006-09-24 08:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by ssanborn27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u kan adopt
2006-09-24 08:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by puppet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GET PREGNANT. You don't need his permission to get pregnant.....
2006-09-24 08:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Karen ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋