popping out you cherry for the first time could be a pain..i mean real pain...so why say it is? are there any discomfortspresents after or upon having it popped for the first time? can you give me examples? and also,how do you deal with the pain? i know,if it is your first time,you are expected to bleed.and you'll feel like its hard to move or walk and find it painful to urinate..
can i get some explanations on this part? thanks..its also a part of my sex education research report..
2006-09-24 01:13:00 · 10 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok sweetheart! You are asking a lot of questions about sex! How old are you? Are you sure you are ready to have sex? You have so many questions that I think for some reason you are being pressured by either him or not wanting to loose him, or not wanting him to maybe tell people you are afraid to have sex. If you are really serious and want answers I will be glad to talk to you but here is not the place! You look so young, and sweet and I would say keep it that way. If you want to talk you can get my email from my profile.
Hun just think really hard before you make a big mistake!
Always Amy
2006-09-24 01:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right it hurts becuse its breaking a thin layer of skin you dont feel it pop or break it is just hard to push in and it feels like it wont but when you totally relax and if your wet enought it just slides in and you will no when it is in! If it hurts to much ask them to pull out slightly and then gradually push in again and do this as many times as it takes once its in it feels tight and good!! The next day tho you do feel a bit big so to speak and maybe sore for half a day!!
Good luck and have fun
2006-09-24 08:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by aimzinch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can expect discomfort the first time, it's not pain as such but more just uncomfortable, like the lady above says if you're relaxed it does help.
you may sting a little bit afterwards but you wont have problems walking or anything like that.
as to the bleeding - everyone is different. i think it is fairly common to have a couple of spots of blood but nothing major.
2006-09-24 09:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kerri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pain wont be so bad if your relaxed, and make sure to have lube, just in case you dont get wet enough yourself...make sure that you are ready and use protection...and enjoy it, that helps alot, did for me...
2006-09-24 08:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by manque 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I've heard there is some soreness after the bleeding, but that's about it.
Ladies......
2006-09-24 08:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom about it
2006-09-24 08:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...depend on you how relaxed you will stay..some girls..never bleed on first sexual contact..
2006-09-24 08:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i can't help u coz never try
2006-09-24 08:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheri
2006-09-24 08:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by puppet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STICK TO YOUR VIBRATOR...NO PUN INTENDED!
2006-09-24 11:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋