I have asked a lot of questions here and this is more or less a continuation of past questions...The other nite after I met this woman I have been dating off and on for 2 years, we had a discussion. She has been waffling back and forth between her ex and me. And she had gone out of town last week and told me she was going to take that time to reflect and make some changes with the ex. She was tired of the ex and her behavior. Basically she said she was done with her and wasnt going to see her anymore. Now, shes back, I asked her about her reflection time---she said yes she had thought about things--she looked away from me. I asked her if anything had changed--she flatly relpied no. I said I didnt think so. She said "well I guess it was meant to be" I said...."yeah ok" and I walked away. I decided I needed to not take any calls from her or speak to her for a few days. Its tough b/c I feel the conversation is really not finished--its not. But I also know I took her by suprise
2006-09-24 01:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I left my cell phone at home while I was gone and she did indeed call. Do you think its wrong to avoid her calls? I feel I need to let her think about what she is doing. Is this really me standing my ground or what do you think it is?
What would you do?
2006-09-24 01:18:24 · update #1
Stand your ground...unless of course you want to share her....
2006-09-24 01:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't both of you grow up. First you decide if you want the woman and put a ring on her finger. If not leave her alone. This stupid game both of you are playing is for kids. All she wants is someone to love her. It's obvious, after two years you can feel her feelings, what about your true feelings. After two years, you know if you want the woman in your life, you knew that from the beginning. Stop making excuses.
2006-09-24 08:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you leave her alone FOR GOOD, you'll be standing your ground. Why bother trying to be with a woman who's that indecisive? Don't fall into the "friendship" zone either. That can be dangerous as well. Let her go her own way and wish her the best. I wish YOU the best. You deserve more than a wishy-washy girlfriend.
2006-09-24 08:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by ppinky_phatzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't return her calls. I have better things to do with my time than play these games.
2006-09-24 08:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y'all really need to grow up.
2006-09-24 08:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't know
2006-09-24 08:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋