If your name is on the bill, you can call and request a copy of the bill. Does the bill come to your house? Just open it when it comes. If he pays it on line, then you'd need his pass code and that could be tricky. If he leaves the phone laying around, you could pick it up and check the recent calls made. But honestly, don't play those games...he's your husband, sit him down and communicate!!!
2006-09-24 01:25:18
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answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6
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You have to make a choice here before you even go any further with any type of action.
First of all do you trust your husband? There are 2 ways to go here depending on your answer but were going to hope its the better of the two.
If you do NOT trust him then that brings up a plethora of issues and that puts the cell phone bill at the bottom of the list. If you dont trust him why are you still together? Has he done something for you to have reason to not trust him?
If you DO trust him why exactly do you need to see his cell phone bill? This is the most important question to answer before you obtain anything because it will have the greatest effect on the outcome. Do you feel he is being a tad shady or possibly you are slightly insecure and just need to reassure yourself? If this is the case and you do trust him once you see his bill will you be satisfied?
My main concern would be if his bill turns up all kosher with nothing unusual will you stop there or will you continue to dig for evidence? Be sure to decide this now because if it will assure you he is a good guy then go ahead and take a look. If this will not satisfy your fear then obtaining the bill is only a small part of a much bigger problem.
Best way to get it is to make some space in the house, call it the new family bill storage area and ask him for his cell bill to throw in the pile. If he doesn't produce it don't push the matter just go with some of the other ideas here such as requesting a copy or checking online. If you do trust him and just need reassurance I wouldn't let on to what your trying to do simply get a copy, look it over and never speak of it again.
2006-09-24 01:42:32
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answered by se7en 2
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If you have second thoughts call the phone company and if you are authorized then you can get a copy. Do not open. Ask you husband first and see what he has to say. Don't lose you trust with him. Then check out the information with the copy of the phone records. If he is telling you the truth then don't tell him and never assume again but if he is lieing to you then you confront him with the evidence.
2006-09-24 09:11:08
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answered by Lori K 3
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If you suspect your husband is cheating on you, have you ever considered your husband may have secretly hidden, a second mobile phone, like 'pay as you go' where no cell phone bills are delivered to the home?
Cheating partners often use a second mobile so nothing shows up in main billing pages, so getting a copy or opening up his cell phone bill may not provide the evidence your looking for. It's like them having a secret email account to, it can be hard to discover.
2006-09-24 02:46:41
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answered by Anonymous
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You should be getting a bill for the cell phone anyway. If the carrier doesn't list the calls individually, and the phone is in his name, then you probably can't find out who he's been calling. It sounds as if there's a lack of communication and trust in your relationship. Maybe, now's the time for that heart to heart talk about the state of the marriage.
2006-09-24 01:32:08
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answered by cheyennetomahawk 5
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You can call the cell phone company and ask them to send you an itemized bill. You can also view your incoming and outgoing phone calls online. I don't know what cell company you use, but all of them have a website that you can register and view your bill.
2006-09-24 01:30:14
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answered by BluePassion 4
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Well, first off there doesn't seem to be any communication between you and your husband or you wouldn't need to have your own copy he would just show you. Second if your name isn't on the bill you can't get one unless you know his passwords for the net bill. I would ask him for it. If he doesn't give it to you there is something he is hiding, So find it when he isn't there. If he does give it and you find nothing there you are gonna have some explaining to do of your own.
2006-09-24 01:51:39
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answered by barbara_taylor17 2
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Go online and try to setup an online bill pay/ view. If he already did that, try calling the phone company and ask for a copy of your last bill. OR....ask him for a copy of his bill. If he doesnt give it to you, your marriage is over.
2006-09-24 01:25:21
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answered by ♥ Karen ♥ 4
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go to the place where he gets his cell phone and tell them you would like to have a copy of his bill....i would be suspicious if my husband kept his cell phone bill from me...that is if i had a husband...but i do find men are hard to trust these days...and what is a relationship without trust...hope all is fine for you though.....
2006-09-24 01:23:13
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answered by sanangel 6
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if the bill is in your name call the cell phone company and get a copy if not your outta luck... better yet if its not going to cause problems just ask him!!
2006-09-24 02:24:39
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answered by Pacman 3
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