Okay ladies, give me your HONEST heartfelt opinion on this. You start dating a guy, he is wonderful, sensitive, good listener, solid career, spiritual etc. Then he drops the BOMB on you that he "used" to be gay but "changed" through the ex-gay movement.
Despite giving him points for his honesty (which some are not), would you STILL date/marry a guy who professes to be ex-gay? Would you always be kinda worried if when he is making love to you he is thinking of and is 100% attracted to your female body and not thinking of a man?
I find that when you ask people who actually believe that gay people can change their sexual orienation, whether they themselves would marry a "former" gay person, they get a little squeamish and backtrack especially considering what happened to pastor Taggert's wife, the governer of New Jersey's wife and thousands of women who discovered the hard way, sexual orienation cannot be erased just like that. What do you think?
2007-03-26
09:15:13
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