I went to a friend's wedding this weekend, and although i really enjoyed everything, i have to say that the only awkward moments were when we were forced to follow some very stiff protocol. Now, don't get me wrong, i'm all for tradition and the rituals, etc., but I feel that some things are just over the top, and I think people are forced to do them just because they're afraid people will talk. For example, we greeted the family and the couple outside of the church (Italian Canadian family, so lots of ritual, etc). Then we saw them again and chatted with them casually (better) in the hall during cocktails, etc. But right at 6pm, despite the fact that we had been there for 1-1/2 hours already, took pictures, etc., they made all of us get out of the hall to the lobby,and do another greeting line, which took over half an hour... so the same thing again- kiss kiss, congratulations etc. I thought that was unnecessary, and really, you come off insincere by that point. Am I alone on this one?
2007-03-19
09:42:44
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chickie
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