I've been married for just over three years now. I have no kids but I would like to have a family in the future, I just have some things to settle first. Anyways, people in my family and some of my friends persistently keep asking me why I don't have kids and when I'm going to start, etc. One of my friends (who got married last year) is now pregnant and expecting her first. I told her that I have names planned for when I have kids and she asked me "So what's the problem? Why are you waiting?" And another time, my mom said that I shouldn't wait so long to have kids and I should have them now because al of our parents/in laws are waiting for grandchilidren, etc. Does this mean they are looking down on me because I have no kids? I've been married the longest out of my friends and I'm the only one with no kids, and I'm the youngest in my family and the only one with no kids.
2007-01-18
04:00:19
·
18 answers
·
asked by
Anonymous