When you do nice things for someone simply because you care about them a lot and want to help them out, is it wrong to feel hurt when you don't hear a "thank you" or "I appreciate what you do for me" occasionally?
I've been told that appreciation should go without saying and that it's selfish to expect a "thank you" (or another form of communicated appreciation) after doing nice things and being there for somone. I've been told that if I expect appreciation, I'm doing something for that person because I expect something in return - appreciation. In my mind, I'm doing it because I care, not to get appreciation, but when I don't get an occasional "thank you" or "I appreciate what you do for me", I feel taken for granted and walked all over.
I need help. Thanks!
2007-01-23
07:29:19
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