When my kids were younger, what they ate (fruit, veggies, salad, fish) was more important to me than how they ate, so I did not emphasize table manners. Unfortunately, now, all too often, their spoon and fork sit cleanly beside their plate for the entire meal while they use their fingers! I can remind them to use silverware, which works for a bite or two, but how can I encourage them to use their silverware and/or help them want to have good table manners? I'm concerned that I'm neglecting my parental duties by not addressing this matter. I'd prefer not to result to extreme measures or fear tactics (e.g., "Next time you use your fingers, you'll be dismissed with no more food for the rest of the night") if I can help it (although, come to think of it, this would probably be effective). They are still working out their motor skills, so I can understand their temptation, plus we often eat corn on the cob, grapes, and other things that "are" acceptable finger foods. Thoughts?
2006-08-18
11:50:45
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Diane H
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