She's supposed to keep it neat herself, of course, but left it trashed. Last time she did this I made the bed and picked up and washed laundry but didn't touch the books/toys/craft supplies that were all over the place, and she seemed hurt when she came back and it was still messy. Her dad, my ex-husband, is obsessively neat and tells the children all the time that I'm a slob, so I don't want to reinforce that idea in her head, but I also don't want her to think I'm her servant, and for her to learn to be responsible for her things. But again, I want her to know how much I love her and missed her. And I bought her a lava lamp while she was gone, and it would look really neat in a freshly-cleaned room (or should I help her clean the room when she gets back and then surprise her with the lamp as a reward?)
2006-07-23
03:47:44
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