Anyone not vaccinating their child?

Question

For those of you who do not vaccinate your children, why didn't you? Also, have you ever felt pressure to do so from your pediatrition or had a bad experiance while in the emergency room dealing with this? Thanks for your stories.

Thank you joyfulbabies...I was just about to make that point!

Answer 1

If you are searious about non vaxing, you may want to check out and join the forums at mothering.com http://www.mothering.com/discussions/forumdisplay.php?f=47 for ideas on how to find a supportive pediatrician, deal with the schools, and educate yourself on the pros/cons of vax free.

Stick to your guns and do what YOU decide is best for YOUR child, and don't let anyone tell you any different.

Answer 2

I have 2 unvaccinated with only 1 bad experience personally with medical personnel; most are suprised but don't pressure.

Hubby and I made this decision together after reading lots about it. There are NO long-term studies on the possible harmful effects of heaping multiple weird-ingredient vaccines on small growing kids, and many of the diseases just aren't very dangerous to a healthy person today.

I did get a long run around from 1 school, who evenutally let my kid enroll with a waiver form. After 2 years of that, I started homeschooling so school's not an issue now.

Answer 3

You are right, it is now not a reason for the children to be denied into a public school. However, you may end up fighting Department of Children and Family Services. My friend, whom I will keep anonymous, had a severe allergic reaction to some shots when she was little. She then decided not to get her own children vaccinated. When she did try to put them in school, DCFS came to her door and took her children for medical neglect. Then, while the children where in their custody, gave the children shots without the moms permission. In turn, 2 had allergic reactions so bad that they died. And one is now brain damaged. Also, did I forget to mention that the dad had very bad reactions also? So, now my friend has 3 children still alive. One of which is handicapped and will never walk again or speak again. She also has 2 children that her last memory of them is of the police pulling the children out of her house and then they 'killed' them. I am glad for the laws no because my friend or any other mother wont have to get these shots if they dont really want to.

Answer 4

You are going to hear good points and bad points on this issue. I personally chose to vaccinate both my children. The diseases that are being vaccinated against are diseases that were epidemics anywhere from 100-300 years ago. Many caused children and adults alike to suffer severely and the vaccines are a way to ensure that our generation, our childrens, and those that follow will not have to suffer for this. If the majority of children stay vaccinated, we (the human race) can keep another epidemic from happening.

Answer 5

I chose to delay vaccinations and space them out. I was on the fence for so long about it. But, I think it's a choice you have to make for yourself. You are NOT terrible if you don't, you are making a decision that you believe is the right one for your child. Listen to your gut, Momma!
There is a good book called, "What your doctor may not tell you about your children's vaccinations" by Stephanie Cave, you probably get it used on Amazon.com. I don't think it's one-sided. It just gives you all the info you need to make an informed decision. Good luck!

Answer 6

well, i was seriously debating on waiting to get my daughter vaccinated until she was at least 2 years old, because my mother in law told me about studies that have linked vaccinations in infants to autism. but the daycare i bring her to requires vaccinations, there is no waiver you can get, its either get the shots or you cant go there. and i looked around at other daycares in my area and they were either extremely over priced and we couldnt afford it, or it was a scum hole and i would never leave her there. however i do not give her the flu shot, and when i told the nurse i didnt want it she drilled me about it, i was like "look lady, its MY child and i dont want her to get it, just be quiet and do your job"

Answer 7

Actually, you can send your child to school if he or she isn't vaccinated. You must file a medical, religious, or philosophical waiver. All states have the medical exemption and many have the others. Just a little FYI.

Answer 8

ya my dr kinda forced me into it- but i put it off for like 6mnths tl she was older-- he wanted me to get the chicken pox vaccine but i refused-- and my 18mnth old just got the pox- it only lasted a couple of days and wasnt bad at all and now she is truly vaccinated for life-- vaccines are NEVER for ever- you always need boosters- and what adult do u know that gets a booster shot?-- it makes them more vulnerable in their later yrs--

Answer 9

Yes, your pediatrician will think you are a terrible parent and an idoit. There are however many books written on the subject, or you could take any idiots advice if you are not a good reader.

Answer 10

I havent since my kids birth, he is now 19 months old and hasnt been sick ONCE!