My ex-girlfriend is 3 months pregnant with my baby. I've tried everything to be with her, but she loves another man and wants nothing to do with me. She is 22, and I'm 26. I'm currently in college to be an elementary school teacher and have my own apartment, she works a 9-5 and lives with her parents. I want custody, or at least joint custody of our baby. Also, I would love for the baby to have my last name, but she is the unwed mother, so I believe it's her call? I don't know what I should do. Should I get a lawyer and go after her, if so, now or after the baby is born? Do I not get a lawyer and approach a different way? What are my chance if I do this? What happened to you in your situation? If you've been in this situation or know, please help me. I'm also aware that state laws vary, we live in New York. Thanks for your advice in advance!
2007-01-16
05:23:06
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Mr.L
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