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2007-01-16 08:54:15 · 37 answers · asked by xxxilovemichaelxxx 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

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when your in a stable-lasting relationship and are finacially stable also

2007-01-16 08:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 1 1

Age isn't really a very good indicator - I know a few people who have had children very young (16, 15, 17) and have made terrific parents. I also know lots of older mums as I was 32 when I had my first and 40 when I had my second. Its not really age but a real desire and being fully informed about how completely life changing it is - no matter what age you are, it can still be shock! Personally I think 40-45 should be a limit as you need to be fit and healthy and be there for a good 20 years!

2007-01-16 09:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1 0

I'd say ideally between the ages of 24 and 30. And most definitely before the age of 35 as fertility starts to decline quite a lot by then. If having a family is majorly important to you, then I probably wouldn't leave it much later than that. Often women think they have all the time in the world to have great careers, buy houses, and travel all around having fun. But evolution hasn't changed our bodies very much at all. If you delay for too long you do risk disappointment. Unless of course you're rich and can afford to freeze your eggs and get IVF later on when it suits you. lol :-)

2007-01-16 09:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Butterscotch 7 · 0 0

I don't think it's an age thing. Depends on what your plans in life are. Me and my husband wanted to wait another 8 yearsm but then I got pregnant and now i have a beautiful 5 month old daughter. I'm 24 and sometimes still think I'm too young. but then I have friends my age who already have their 3rd (all planned as well !)
Having one child is not really a big money thing. I don't spent much money on my daughter at all. there are always people who just had a baby. and they grow sooooo fast that i didn't buy any clothes for my daughter the first 3 month. I had enough for a month without washing :)

2007-01-18 11:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by carmen1509s 2 · 0 0

There is no right age,
It doesn't matter wether you are finacially stable or in a stable relationship,
Things happen in life that are so sudden and unpredictable,
You can be with your partner for 10 years and he can run off with someone else,
I think that once a woman has got some qualifications, and has done a fair amount of socialising and has some life experience-and she could cope with a child by herself if she had too then I think that's the right time.

2007-01-16 09:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0 0

When you feel old enough to settle down and not party so much, when you have had the holidays of a lifetime backpacking etc, before you get to old to worry about the problems that may arise with older ladies pregnancies, too old to play with them at the park and take them out for their first drinks and be able to fetch them from parties and night clubs without having to put your teeth back in etc. There is no right age, it will happen when your ready and you will know when. i was ready before my husband but nature decided i was right ;-)

2007-01-16 10:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by Michele 3 · 0 0

when you are emotionally ready, in a stable relationship where your other half will support you all the way, when you can provide at least the basics for your child, as best as you can, and when you feel you need to do it, like you are at the right time of life to have your children, Your body will just tell you.
When you see them for what they are, a lifelong commitment and little miracle lives that need to be nurtured and loved.

2007-01-16 09:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

when isn't it! everyone has so many views on when's best to have a child. i think there's never a right time or age. i suppose as long as you can care for,love,support the child and are in a happy relationship then whenever but i say at least wait til your in your twenties. i had my daughter at 23 and that was a perfect age for me

2007-01-17 00:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

When both parents are mature enough to have a relationship together, so the child doesn't have to go through the pain of separation or divorce. They must also have secure jobs, so they can support the child, & realize that the child comes first. I'd say mid-twenties is ideal.

2007-01-16 09:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Have your last one by the age of 24. When you hit 40, your kids will be at least 16 and life can really start.

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