Ok here's the situation....due to extenuating circumstances, my husband and are living with his mother right now with our 3 month old son. We are unable to get our own place at the moment, but we are trying. We are incredibly grateful to mom for helping us out as much as she does/has.
The problem is she thinks she is the parent. Beyond that, if she disagrees with how we raise our child (even down to what clothes he should wear, or whether or not we take him to see my family), she treatens to kick us out unless we do things HER way.
I just don't know how to deal with this. Obviously I don't want to end up homeless with my baby, but I want to be able to parent how I see fit. Anybody have any ideas on how I can handle this?
We do pay her the going rate to rent a room in the area, buy our own groceries, and do all the housekeeping (she figures "it's the LEAST we can do since she is doing so much for us"), so we're not really getting THAT good of a deal living here, but most people
2007-03-03
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