Adolescent - September 2007

What should I tell my bf? His friend called me a Hollister SL**. I was wearing shorts and a t-shirt. They were Hollister but still. He yelled that to my face will I was in the lunch line. Should I tell him?

2007-09-19 08:56:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter is learning culinary arts at a high school career center. Her friend told me that my daughter said to her that they are going to do some wine tasting. Now, I know that the chef that is training them would never allow them to do anything illegal.

But, we are Mormon (which I think she told chef in the first week of school), and we don't drink alcohol. However, I know that, as a chef, she might be cooking with wines, at least in training.

One suggestion that I heard was that they taste but do not swallow. But, I don't know if even that is good or not.

And maybe I'm borrowing trouble. but, I just want some advice. Thanks.

And, please, no Mormon bashing!

2007-09-19 07:22:31 · 9 answers · asked by mormon_4_jesus 7

I'm 16 (so under the legal drinking age) and I get really sick of my friends getting ridiculously drunk at every party. I do drink, but not to the extent that they do, which usually ends up with everyone passing out or throwing up or... you get the idea.

And the other night there was a house party which got a bit crazy, my friend got so drunk he dropped a glass and then picked it up the smashed pieces, nearly cutting his finger off in the process, so I had to sit with him, blood everywhere and call an ambulance and go to hospital with him. If it wasn't for me, no one would have had the sense to call for an ambulance because they were all so out of it.

It feels like I always have to be the responsible one and that gets a bit annoying. Does anyone else feel like this?

2007-09-19 05:03:53 · 39 answers · asked by Emma :) 4

Why when people see teen parents do they think they are on welfare? Wasted their life or that it's a diease? Don't teens who have children also have the same rights and ways as older people with children?

Why can't people just call them parents? Not teen parents, teen mom or teen dad but just a mom or a dad? Just like everyone don't teenagers want to see their children grow up to be successful and why not instead of thinking down about them why can't we just help them and not judge them?

2007-09-19 04:37:30 · 18 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4

My younger brother thinks he is really cool and is sleping with differnet girls all the time. I'm worried that he will come into contact with STIs and pass them on to someone else. What advice should i give him about how to prevent STIs?

2007-09-18 23:29:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-18 23:00:23 · 12 answers · asked by New Mommy 2 Shayla 3

My girlfriend wanted to have sex. I am 17 she is 20. I really didnt want to tell her no so I excepted her offer and was really confused about what was happening. She was on top and I ejaculated in her. She is now pregnant and she is trying to force legal actions onto me. I need to know; can she face any legal consequences?

2007-09-18 20:11:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Things like definin the problem, keeping track of ones emotions, thinking about different options... etc. Any ideas would be appreciated.

2007-09-18 19:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by CounselorDan 4

ok so heres the deal, i met my girl friend sophmore year and we went out for like 2 weeks before her pearnts dissaproved of me because of a hicky! ever since soph more year we secretley been together and well you know shes pregnet,..i told my family already but their fine with it, on her side their real into family morals and trust her with all their hearts, ive argued with her dad telling him a good guy but he still denyed me, now i feel stupid, but we have no idea how she should tell her pearnts shes pregnet with the guy they hate, !!and on top of that they were paying her college and other important things, i figure shes 19 out of high school now so it wouldent make her look as bad *** high school preg. their still going to go crazy , how should we tell them shes pregnet, and yes im taking full responsibility im getting us a place a car and have a job, i remamber him telling me he didint want me with her because she would end up pregnet, and thats why im so confused

2007-09-18 19:05:37 · 15 answers · asked by redrum952000 1

I was talking to someone, and I said to her "I am only 19, but I have been through a lot more then a lot of adults have".

And she flipped out. And said, and I quote
"You are just a child. I have had a awful life and learned from it all. I know how cruel the world is. My father beat me my whole life, I have lost best freinds, I have been in relationships and you are just a naive child."

I got very upset when she said that. And I blew up on her.
I baiscally screamed back that everything she just told me was just a smidge of what I had to put up with as a child.
My mom worked from 5am to 9pm and I was 9 years old and taking care of my little sister. I fed her and took her to school and I gave everyone dinner and cleaned the house. I never had a childghood of my own, and it pissed me off that she called me a child.

I know I am 19, but the last time anyone helped me with anything was when I was 5 years old and my mom taught me how to use the microwave.

2007-09-18 18:45:07 · 22 answers · asked by Megan 3

You see children saying things like:

"Hott 13/f here! If you wanna chat press 222"

I get so frustrated hearing little kids saying things like

"I may be 14, but I am effing sexy"

Who agrees that these KIDS need to have a wake up call???

2007-09-18 18:34:29 · 11 answers · asked by Megan 3

Friends and I did a joke in bad taste the other day at school. We found a dirty diaper on the way walking to school we stuck in the desk of our teacher in home room. We got caught myself and two of my friends got suspended from school. I got five days cause it was my idea they got 3. When I return to school on the 25th I have to submit paper no less then 500 words explaining why i did it. I dont know even why I did It any suggestions?

2007-09-18 17:38:41 · 18 answers · asked by felix j 1

Ive been using the Clean and Clear Morning Burst shine control for the mornings. But im also using the Biore pore minimizer for night. i have been using it for almost two weeks now. and i am breaking out even more than i have before i used them!!!! Should i stop using them or just use one at a time? PLEASE HELP!!!! i need to know WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON?!?!?!?!

2007-09-18 17:30:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wonder why do males get circumcised at birth what else does circumcise it do besides enlarge the size of a males penis.

2007-09-18 16:08:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-18 15:33:48 · 20 answers · asked by DEPRESSED™ Volatile Tempter 3

well i get pretty read in the higher inner thigh, kinda like a diaper rash, but from jeans or underwear. i was wondering is there anyway to prevent this? and whats the best ointment for it.

thankss

2007-09-18 10:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My oldest daughter will be 12 next month and I need some ideas for a party. She is not like other 12 year olds. She still likes Build-A-Bear and Polly Pockets. So I am stuck for ideas. I don't want her party to be babyfied but at the same time, I don't want it to be too old either. Please help me!!!
The best suggestion will get the 10 points!!!

Thank you in advance for your help!

2007-09-18 06:14:18 · 10 answers · asked by GASDIVA 5

2007-09-18 04:51:17 · 63 answers · asked by Carla 1

I have a 15 year old daughter in 10th grade. When she was 13 she had cut herself a couple of times, and we never knew the reason behind it. A couple months later she admitted to wanting attention from everyone who would give it to her, and she thought some girls who cut themselves at her school were cool, and said that she would never do it again. She never did do it again either. After seeing a therapist for about a year, she completely changed. She is more loving, caring, optimistic, and open eyed about everything. Last night she was with her boyfriend and i overheard them talking. She was sitting on the floor with her legs stretched out asking him to break her leg. Of course, he refused. She just kept asking and pulled the whole "come on, if you loved me you would do it" thing. What does this mean, and what should be done about it?

2007-09-17 19:17:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm 13 and i was at my aunts. she told me not to do something and i did it anyways. then i backtalked when she was lecturing. she threatened to spank me and i said "ya right" and backtalked. blah blah blah. she got really angry and pulled me over her knee and spanked me. with a hairbrush too. it hurt really bad. did i deserve it?

2007-09-17 16:00:48 · 26 answers · asked by ash.wri 3

It seems to have become an epidemic, especially among young girls, who in some cases do it for fun !
In other cases, grown women will do it in response to playful teases like a gentle breast caress, or a hair tug.
At one time it was considered "out of bounds" for a female to attack the male's private region. Instead, painful shin kicks and instep stomps were taught as a substitution - & considered just as effective in any encounter, including rape assault !
I personally believe groin attacks by females should be forbidden because:
- it's an assault upon a man's sexual dignity & his core regenerative being
- it causes such extreme pain that a guy can only see stars & feels paralyzed & nauseous
- it causes extreme embarassment, esp. if other girls are present to witness it
- it could cause infertility
- it destroys a guy's ego & can lead to fear of women & depression
- it's unfeminine
- it's a vicious & malicious misuse of her body against a guy's body
- it's totally unfair !!

2007-09-17 13:27:49 · 24 answers · asked by Romano 2

ok i live in a mostly white neighborhood, and i go to this magnent school and theres these group of guys that wont leave me alone, at first they were being funny and cute and said things like "hot chocolate" or call me "beyonce" but now its gotten to the point where i dont feel comforatble, i want them to leave me alone but their all older than me and i'm just some freshman chick i just want them to back off, i told one of them once to stop calling me stuff that my name is candice and he just laughed.
and once i was walking down the hall to class and one of them grabbed by butt and then i looked back he acted like it wasnt him and he didnt see nothin and once at lunch the same guy threw a french fry at me
hellllppp please, i dread going to school now
and dont tell me to tell the teacher or my parents that would be embarassing and they would think i was a slut or something,
shoudl i just try avoiding them in the halls

2007-09-17 11:48:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 13 and i have trouble falling asleep.any ideas to help me?

2007-09-17 10:53:24 · 14 answers · asked by Emmy Lou 1

I know i'm not good but i want to get better so if anyone could tell me where my weak points are and what to do to improve them i'd really apperciate it. Do i even have any potential? I recorded myself singing "travelin' soldier" by the dixie chicks
i'm 14 btw

http://s234.photobucket.com/albums/ee213/littlemisshick100/?action=view¤t=Video5-1.flv

2007-09-17 10:44:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-17 10:35:39 · 22 answers · asked by kody b 1

Please tell me your thoughts on Curfew time for weekends. We live in a very small suburb and the School is the local hangout for about 15 kids, right smack in the center of town. Please tell me if you are a Teenager, Parent or somewhere inbetween ;0) Present curfew is 9:30.

2007-09-17 08:53:09 · 10 answers · asked by swiss girl 3

I went out with some guy over the summer, who I dumped because he was telling other girls he loved them. But even then, we continued talking and I just really, really fell in love with him. Hard. He started telling me he loved me again and that I was hot and sexy and he should've never done those things and blah blah blah (even though he had a girlfriend). Everything was going good I guess, then we started getting into these little arguements. I talked to one of his ex's recently. She said he told her the exact same things he told me and well Idk what to do I'm like crying and I told myself I would never cry over a guy. I just don't know what to do and please don't be mean about this!!

2007-09-17 08:19:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, dad is thinking he is going to change jobs and is not sure what kind of insurence we will have. Or how long we will be without it. I do get urinary tract infections every once in a while and Dad says that I'm getting cut now while that is an option so there are no more worries about it.

I told him I don't want it. I say it's my penis and I like it as it is. It's going to be painful and will never feel the same.

Both Mom and Dad say I'm getting it done and that's final.

But I don't want it done. Can they force me?

2007-09-17 07:22:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to try this again, without all the smartas-comments, I wish only real parents would look at this category, it's not a joke to some of us.
My 13yr old son, is lying about schoolwork, and I'm getting calls almost daily about his behavior at school.
I've contacted the guidance counselor and VP to help, and seems I'm getting no where.
We've taken everything as far as cell, tv, computer, and he has to stay in his room, and still seems not to care, and kicking his as-, which is what I would have gotten, doesn't work either, I need some help, his dad lives 2hrs away, see's him once a week for dinner, and my son is Diabetic, not sure if that has anything to do with any of this?
Any suggestions???

2007-09-17 05:56:44 · 27 answers · asked by tamilynn 3

If your in a loving relationship and want to with your boyfriend and use protection why all the fuss.

2007-09-17 05:16:08 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous