Should groin attacks on guys be eliminated from female self defense education at all ages ?

Question

It seems to have become an epidemic, especially among young girls, who in some cases do it for fun !
In other cases, grown women will do it in response to playful teases like a gentle breast caress, or a hair tug.
At one time it was considered "out of bounds" for a female to attack the male's private region. Instead, painful shin kicks and instep stomps were taught as a substitution - & considered just as effective in any encounter, including rape assault !
I personally believe groin attacks by females should be forbidden because:
- it's an assault upon a man's sexual dignity & his core regenerative being
- it causes such extreme pain that a guy can only see stars & feels paralyzed & nauseous
- it causes extreme embarassment, esp. if other girls are present to witness it
- it could cause infertility
- it destroys a guy's ego & can lead to fear of women & depression
- it's unfeminine
- it's a vicious & malicious misuse of her body against a guy's body
- it's totally unfair !!

Answer 1

If a woman is being attacked, that is a sure-fire way to get the attacker off of her at least for a short time. In that case, I believe it is something ALL women should do in that case. But, the same goes for a man who is being attacked. Get him in the groin, men!

If there are people doing it for fun, then it is not the value of self-defense. Self-defense teaches to fight only if necessary. If they are doing it for fun, they need a different attitude because in that case, it is NOT right!

Answer 2

"gentle breast caress" and "hair tugs" how is that playful? That seems like sexual harassment and assault. You have to understand not every woman is as comfortable with that crap you were talking about earlier. I don't think it should be eliminated because its a useful tactic. But when you use it just for "fun" thats just wrong. Now let me see your reasons why it should be taken out

"- it's an assault upon a man's sexual dignity & his core regenerative being
- it causes such extreme pain that a guy can only see stars & feels paralyzed & nauseous
- it causes extreme embarassment, esp. if other girls are present to witness it
- it destroys a guy's ego & can lead to fear of women & depression
- it's a vicious & malicious misuse of her body against a guy's body
- it's totally unfair !!"
So is rape,assault and whatever else some freak is doing that a woman would need to kick him in the gonads for.

"- it's unfeminine"
And abusing a female is masculine?

"- it could cause infertility"
So does metopause.

When used correctly, in the right line of defence, I don't see why it should be taken away from self defence ed.

Answer 3

It's interesting that you consider a groin attack to be an assault on a man's dignity but a "playful" "gentle" breast caress okay. I guarantee that if someone other than my husband were to caress my breast in any way, whatever defence I need is fair game. Perhaps you're the kind of guy who thinks it's just fine to slap the waitress on the *** as she walks by, but considers it a blow to your ego if she slaps you back across the face.

Hopefully you don't fall into this category, but there are a number of men in this world who "viciously and maliciously" misuse their strength against women whenever the opportunity presents itself. Bullies, abusers, muggers, rapists all take advantage of a woman's lesser physical strength, and any woman has a right to protect herself against them. However, if you're being hit in the groin on a regular basis, then you need to either find a new group of females to spend time with, or you need to look at your own behaviour to see if you're creating a situation they feel the need to defend themselves against. The general rule in our society is that there is never, ever a need to physically touch another person under any circumstance, unless they are inviting you to do so. That goes for the women too.

Answer 4

NO. I do believe that girls should be taught to not playfully kick a boy in his groin or even just because she's mad but that goes with keeping ones hands to ones self. Once a man attacks a woman all bets are off and a kick to the groin is a quick way of getting a man down so that a woman may escape with minimal harm and even her life. Most women are can be over powered by a normal size man and if a man wants to attack a woman he gets what he gets.

Answer 5

i have a 13 yr old daughter who went to use the bathroom @ school and a grl came up behind her and put a knife to her throat and a guy came out from the shadows and tried to rape her. she took her elbow and broke the b!tches nose and kicked the guy in his nuts so hard that he passed out.

my daughter is a very classy young lady, and has never been in a physical altercation before that day. im damn proud i raised her that way and i wouldnt of had that situation gone any other way.

it causes extreme embarassment, esp. if other girls are present to witness it- well good because if any pervert was to put his hands on me or my daughter in any such way i'd hope to god it would embarrass him enough so much that he would never see the light of day again.

it could cause infertility- so can menapause get over it

- it's a vicious & malicious misuse of her body against a guy's body- him using his strenght over her body is a vicous misuse of HIS body against hers

obviously your some 14 yr old perv that tried to touch some grl at school today and u got the sh!t wooped outya. so go to hell mutha fuka

Answer 6

Touching a woman's breast is not 'a playful tease'. That is sexual assult. I think you are the one who is confused here.

If a woman is being attacked, she can and should do anything in her power to stop the attacker. Why does he deserve to have any dignity after such an attack? We WANT our attacker to feel paralyzed so we can get away safely.

I've been mugged before, and it isn't nice to feel powerless to your attacker. Now that I have a daughter, I would do anything it took to ensure that I could always protect her. Sorry, but if you try to molest me or rape me or hurt my daughter, I will be kneeing you very hard in your groin.

Answer 7

Well i semi agree, if the guy is a dick and is trying to rape to woman he loses all rights to not get kicked in the groin. If a guy does that he deserves to get his balls cut off. But I think that It should be reinforced that it is only for emergencies and that its a bad idea to do it for any other reason. I do agree that to many young girls are doing it for fun, although i have never experienced this.

Answer 8

I think groin attacks are a good thing to know... Trust me, kicking a guy in the shins who is trying to rape you is no where near as effective as grabbing and twisting his balls... Actually, kicking a guy in the shins wouldnt do anything compared to kicking him in the balls so hard they retract (is that the right word? im not sure)
and i think if a guy is trying to rape a girl he deserves to be infertile... why would i care about a rapists ego?

UNFAIR?!?! you want to tell me about unfair? how about 3 guys twice a girls size holding her down and raping her? thats unfair! getting sacked because your trying to rape a girl is NOT unfair!
idiots like you dont deserve a place on this planet and at a minimum should have their balls cut off

Answer 9

I used to help teach unarmed combat. If you need to use it, there are no rules of politeness. You do anything and everything possible. I have used a groin defense against one of two muggers with devastating effect. When I finished with the pair, one ran off and the other was so "tired" that he lay down and went to sleep. Since when do you have to worry about someone's embarrassment when you are defending yourself? As long as your attacker is still standing and/or conscious, keep hitting him or her.

Answer 10

Like the question of whether guns are bad or not, I believe it lies in the hands of the person using it. In a good self-defense class, one is taught WHEN is appropriate to use the techniques. The ladies I know, including myself, would never do this or anything like it on a whim - only when it's truly self-defense. Your examples aren't all self-defense. So maybe you should knock the ones who do it, not the classes?