I went out with some guy over the summer, who I dumped because he was telling other girls he loved them. But even then, we continued talking and I just really, really fell in love with him. Hard. He started telling me he loved me again and that I was hot and sexy and he should've never done those things and blah blah blah (even though he had a girlfriend). Everything was going good I guess, then we started getting into these little arguements. I talked to one of his ex's recently. She said he told her the exact same things he told me and well Idk what to do I'm like crying and I told myself I would never cry over a guy. I just don't know what to do and please don't be mean about this!!
2007-09-17 08:19:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just leave him alone altogether. You will eventually start to feel better. Don't keep talking to him and letting him get into your head. He is manipulating all of you and if you just cut him off, you will be fine. It hurts to have your heart broken, but only time can heal it. Leave him alone before anymore damage is done.
2007-09-17 08:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're better off without him. If he was cheating the entire time he was with you, he'll never change. Don't worry about crying over a guy - it's a natural way to help you get over him. So, if you spend a couple days crying, that's ok! Just let it out and move on. There are plenty of guys out there. You just take your time and find one that's worth YOUR time, not the other way around.
2007-09-17 08:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey Keep in Mind, that you are AWESOME!!! And you desirve nothing less than awesome!!! And guess what this guy...is WAY less than awesome. Since you've got feelings for him, yeah it's gonna hurt, but remember, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and it does get easier with time. I'm 21 years old and have had losers, cheaters, and beaters. I wish I could tell you there is a magic spell or something to make it easier, but there isn't you've gotta be tough darlin!!! And NEVER, NEVER let that jerk see you cry, he's not worth your tears!!! and do me a favor, smile :)
2007-09-17 08:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to real life, honey. Men are pigs. Even after you marry them, they still don't change much. You just have to find the right type of guy that isn't going to do stuff like this to you. I'm sorry that you had to learn the same way as the rest of the women out there. Things will get easier. You will get to break a few hearts too TRUST ME! Good luck with your future relationships and just try and get over him. He isn't worth it. I've dated a guy just like him before. Trust me. He isn't worth your tears. If you ever want to talk, you can message me. I would be glad to talk any time.
2007-09-17 08:27:24 · answer #4 · answered by James and Railey's Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you? There will be alot of guys that will come in and out of your life. I know it harts when the man you love dont love you back or breaks you heart. It will hart at first but over time the hart will go away. You have to just be strong. I hope things get better. Good luck God bless
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2007-09-17 08:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by deznfamily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is seriously playing you, and all of his other girlfriends as well. Stay away from him, and if he tries to talk to you again, yell at him loud enough so everyone knows about how is such an awful guy. And be sure to tell all of your friends, too. I can understand how you feel about this. I was really in love with this guy and I really thought he was "the one". I was really into him, he was smart, funny, and adorable, and I thought he loved me back. Well, it turns out, he was just hanging out with me to get closer to my BFF and asked her out. Of course, she said no to him, and embarassed him in front of all of his friends. Even though deep down I knew he really didn't want me, I just kept feeling like any day now, he would confess his true love for me. I just wanted him, you know? Anyway, I would suggest talking about it with people who don't really know your ex. That's how I got over him, I talked with all of my camp friends about him, and I realized that he wasn't the one for me. Just remind yourself that the love you still feel for him isn't going to end overnight, and that there are so many more guys out there who will love you, and just you. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-09-17 08:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Caroline♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid you can't trust this guy. You need to have nothing more to do with him. He just wants to use you. Even though he may be very handsome and have a charming personality, you need to leave him alone. I know, nothing hurts more than a broken heart. However, he will just break it again if you give him a chance.
2007-09-17 08:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by pennypincher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
boys and men will lie, cheat and steal to get u. always remember that, because it's a fact. cry and get it out of your system and then u will be able to move on. don't talk to the ex's honey they could be throwing salt on u. salt on an open wound burns like hell. get u another boyfriend it's already causing u to much pain.
2007-09-21 01:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by shareecee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you are going to cry over him, it sounds like he is your 1st true love. look if you compleatly trust his ex then i say he's playing you, but if it's one of those 2 faced backstabing bitches the be happy with him. i know how you feel because about 2 weeks ago my 1st true love broke my heart for another girl. listen to your heart and your mind and you will find the answer in your heart!
2007-09-17 10:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Freckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry it out baby. cry it out and you will recover in no time. the future is the thing and don't include him in your future. you keep posting these things when they happen. only here to help. god bless you honey. you can cry a river over him and wash away all the bad stuff.
2007-09-17 08:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by JIM 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋