Before I got pregnant, my bf and I used to party all the time together. Now, we had the luxury of a "planned pregnancy" and b4 I got pregnant he would say that he was going to quit drinking and partying when I got pregnant b/c I would no longer be able to and I explained to him that I would feel so left out. Well, I am 6 1/2 mos now and he still goes out drinking with his friends and parties on the weekends...and just as I told him I would, I feel very left out and sometimes get aggravated when he comes stumbling in at 2:00a. Now granted, he doesn't drive when he drinks, he always rides w/ someone else. When I bring up the fact that he promised he'd quit drinking, he just says that's very unfair of me to ask him to do that since he works so hard all week. I'm not saying he doesn't work hard...I know he does. But I work too...I'd like to have a drink after work, but I can't. Is it selfish of me to think he shouldn't be able to either?!
2007-11-19
09:20:41
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