Im just curious..
If a women is pregnant and she has sex.. can the guys penis hurt the baby? like does it go up that far in the vagina? Im not trying to be gross its just a question and my mom doesnt know either. Thank you.. and if you have sex the guys penis goes in the vagina correct? does it hurt your first time? and will it always fit? because Im scared mine is too "tight" and that would be embarrissing..
2007-11-19 10:14:07 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sex is not an issue during a normal pregnancy, and even in high risk pregnancies where sex is contra-indicated it is not because the penis would hurt the baby. The cervix is between the vagina and the uterus so there is no risk of contact.
Barring certain medical conditions which you overwhelming likely do not have, then you have nothing to worry about as far as "fitting". Sex is often uncomfortable the first time or two while the vagina adjusts, but think about how much the vagina has to expand to birth a baby! No penis is that large. That being said, once you are older and more experienced, you will likely learn that some fits are better than others for many, many reasons not all of which are physical.
2007-11-19 10:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by davis0375 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,sex won't hurt the baby. The penis goesinto the vagina, while the baby develops inside the uterus, which is further up. The cervix is what separates the vagina from the uterus. If the penis is large enough to hit the cervix during sex, it can hurt, but it will never go through the cervix and into the uterus. (I am in my 9th month of pregnancy and still having sex. The doctor says it's fine.)
It doesn't ALWAYS hurt your first time (it didn't for me). Some reasons why it might hurt are if your hymen is still intact (this is a membrane inside of you... it may already be broken if you use tampons, or even if you're really athletic and do a lot of running...), or if the penis stretches you for the first time it may be uncomfortable, or the cervix thing I mentioned above.
Most likely it will fit, althuogh it may be uncomfortable at first. Think about it...the vagina can stretch open wide enough for a baby to pass through it during childbirth!
I hope that helped answer all your questions.
2007-11-19 10:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first time you have sex it may hurt a little, but it doesnt hurt the whole time. vagina's stretch so dont worry if its too tight for a penis because women push 5-10 lb babies out of their vagina's everyday, yours will get bigger when it is necessary. when you are pregnant the penis can not hurt the baby, because the baby is in the uterus not the vagina. and the uterus is protected by your cervix and during pregnancy a mucus plug that keeps out bacteria and other sperm. the penis can irritate the cervix causing discomfort and irritation for the mother but not harming the baby( the cervix is also thicker during pregnancy so that adds extra protection.) the only way that the penis can actually hurt the baby when its in the uterus is if the penis has an std and transmits it to the mother which can cause birth defects in the baby.
2007-11-19 11:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by curvy_chick000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the penis does enter the vagina. It is uncomfortable but if you take your time and have a lot of foreplay (talk to mom about that if you are not sure what it is) it can be more enjoyable. It will become more pleasant the more you practice. Don't worry about the fit, it will adjust.
I should tell you to wait until you are married but... Just wait until you meet someone you are comfortable enough with to "be" with.
In most cases sex cannot harm the baby. Besides the cervix the baby has a placenta that keeps it very well protected. Later in some high risk pregnancies it is not recommended. I'm not a Dr. but I think it is because it can exacerbate an existing problem.
2007-11-19 11:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by In love with 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly don't know if it hurts the baby. You could go and ask a doctor that question but yes the penis goes into the vagina when you have sex. It will hurt sometimes. Maybe even the first time for you because it did the first time for me. Don't worry about how tight you are. Everythings going to be alright. Have fun.
2007-11-19 10:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by criswellmary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope it doesn't hurt the baby because the cervix is closed and the baby is further up the birth canal
they say tha later on in your pregnancy that sex is good to bring on labour but most people find it uncomfortable having sex that far gone im 8 days over and me nd my partner have both gone off it.. the vagina will strech so the penis will fit, it may b a little uncumfy at 1st but as u get goin in slackens off good luck!! x x x
2007-11-19 10:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I know, having sex while pregnant does not hurt the baby. You can have sex right up to the day of delivery and it would be okay. Depending on the size of the guy's penis, it can go pretty far up almost hitting your intestines.
The first time it will hurt, because it is tight. after you have sex the first three or four times it won't hurt. It will actually feel really good. The bigger the penis, the more it will hurt. A guy's penis will always fit into the woman, no matter how tight she is. And yes, the guy's penis goes into the vagina..
Just please wait until you are ready to have sex. Don't have sex just to have it, okay. Wait until you find a person you truly love and care about. It will make the experience much better, adn you won't wake up regretting what you did. I'm not saying wait until marriage, just wait until it feels right in your heart.
2007-11-19 10:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by dg2003 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
When you are pregnant the baby is far up in the uterus that the penis can not hurt the baby. Having sex for the first time is not going to feel all that great, it wont be to tight for the penis.
2007-11-19 10:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man's penis is that big that it can hurt the baby the baby has to come down the birth canal and it might not seem like it is far away but it is thats why u have to get to 10 centimeters before giving birth. and for having sex for the first time it depends on the man's penis size if it's too big it might hurt or if it's to small it won't fit if u are having sex with someone that has a really big penis*
2007-11-19 10:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by shay love 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly healthy to have sex throughout your pregnancy unless your doctor advised you not to. Your guy's penis won't be able to touch the baby because the cervix is at the top of the vagina and the hole is the size of a pinhead. Also, the baby is in the amniotic sac. The movement won't harm it at all, it'll have fun boucing around! Everything should work perfectly fine, and if it doesn't you can always ask your doctor about that. Good luck! :)
2007-11-19 11:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by Pretty Maggie Money Eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋