pergnant!against abortion,too young,still in skool,parents will kill me,what do i do?

Answer 1

hahaha maybe now you realize that you should have sex till your older! :"D

Answer 2

ok first you need to tell your parents. They will be angrier the longer you wait to tell them because it means that they have less time to discuss options with you.

Break it to them gently, sit them down and explain to them that you understand you went against their back in having sex in the first place and it wasn't probably the most sensible thing to do but that you realise you've made a mistake and have to deal with the consequences.

Tell the father of the child first and then he might be able to support you in telling your parents, presenting a united front may help calm your parents down.

If the father doesn't want to be part of the babies life remind him that it takes two to make a child and you were both irresponsible and it shouldn't just be you who takes the consequences.

As far as school goes you need to stick with it for as long as possible. Some schools will accomadate you throughout your pregnancy but others will not be as willing. Show them that you are dedicated to your stuides and that you'll try to keep up despite the fact you're pregnant.

Think about things like adoption and whether or not you can support the baby with the help of your parents. No one should expect you to do this on your own so don't try and hide it.

Answer 3

I got pregnant whilst I was still at school and was surprised at how supportive yet highly disappointed my parents were and still are. You need to tell them, you need their support, they might give you the I am very disappointed in you lecture but to be honest you deserve it. I don't mean to upset or scare you anymore than you are but you need to get yourself checked for sexually transmitted diseases, a baby on the way might not be all you have to worry about. You have the choice of bringing up your baby or adoption, with the help and support of your family you could finish school get a job and be a good mom, if you are really sure you are not ready then adoption would be the best option for you. Get pregnancy counselling this will help you to make the right decision, but think very carefully as it is only you that can make up your mind, don't be forced into anything. Good luck x

Answer 4

I know it will be hard, but tell your parents. They will probably be really angry at first, but then they will get used to the idea and help you through your pregnancy. I think that it is the right decision to keep your baby through your pregnancy. If you want, Adoption is always a choice. Lots of people cant have kids and would gladly adopt your baby. If you want to raise it, and can get support to do so, then I think you would enjoy being a parent. Good Luck and I hope everything works out for the best.

Answer 5

I'm glad you're against abortion. Abortion kills. Remember that. Never let ANYONE talk you into aborting your baby.
I know you probably already know this, but humor me and read it:
First of all, I'd like to point out that if you kill a baby when it is in the mother's womb, it is called abortion and it is legal. However, if the baby is out of the mother's body and killed, it is, by law, called murder. Really, "abortion" is just a technicality of the law; a loophole. It should really be construed as murder.
The "thing" in a mother's womb really is a live human being. No one says they are going to a "Fetus Shower"; people go to BABY showers. Though the baby is unborn, it is still a human life. After the third week of pregnancy, the baby's heart beats. Every abortion stops one heart from never beating again.
Did you see the episode of House where they had to cut open the mother's womb to operate on the fetus?? The baby was only a few months developed and it grabbed the nurses hand when they were operating. That really is a sign that unborn babies are human beings.
There are many ways that abortions are conducted, and all of them are extremely gruesome and cruel. In a "Saline Abortion", a needle is stuck into the mother's abdomen. The doctors then suck out the fluid out of the womb and insert an extremely salty solution ("Saline") in it's place. The baby then breathes in the saline and, after an hour of slowly being poisoned to death, the baby convulses and dies.
In a D&C Abortion, cervix is opened using an osmotic dilator. Then a thin metal rod with a knife-sharp loop at the end is inserted into the uterus. The curette is used to tear the baby apart (limb by limb). After this, a a hollow plastic tube attached to a suction aspirator is inserted to suck out the fetus. These are captured by a stockinet attached to the end of the suction tube.
A D & E abortion is performed in the second trimester (12-24 weeks) and is usually a 2-3 day procedure. At this stage of pregnancy, the fetus' tendons, muscles, and bones are more developed. The cervix has closed more tightly and must be dilated enough to remove the larger fetus.
To aid in cervical dilation, dried seaweed sticks are inserted into the cervix. The dilation process can take 1-2 days depending on the size of the fetus.
Once the cervix is sufficiently dilated, the seaweed is removed. A device sort of like a pliers is inserted into the uterus to forcibly tear the baby apart. The skull is then crushed and removed. A suction aspiration is then introduced to remove any remaining fetal parts.
If you are not already grossed out and disgusted at how women can do such things to such an innocent young child, you need to hear this: When disposing of an aborted baby, it is run through an incinerator.
Since 1973 (when abortion was first legalized), there have been over 48 million abortions. Those are 48 million people that never got the chance to live; 48 million innocent people who were put to death.
Adoption is the best option for those that are considering abortion. There are over two million couples in America waiting to adopt a child; for every child aborted, there are at least 4 couples that would be willing to adopt him or her.
That being said, there are over 4 million people out there that would be overjoyed to be able to take care of your child. Always know that God willed everything to happen and every child should be seen as a blessing. I know that this baby might not have come to you at the time you wanted it to, but- who knows- this could be the perfect time for that couple that has been looking to adopt a child.

Answer 6

First, how old r u, tell your parents once your 100% sure, and there is always adoption, and also you can still finish school your life is not over, i dont know where you live but where i am there a special programs for pregnant people or u could probably go to regular skool if u want i go to Options For Youth thats where a lot of pregnant teens go because you only go 2 times a week for an hour

Answer 7

I was still in high school when I had my first child. The best thing that you could do is tell your parents, they are usually more understanding than you might think!! You can always have your doctor or even school counselor tell them as well, that way you won't feel so bad and they will have a chance to cool down before talking to you!!
Good Luck and Tell someone so you can get the proper pre-natal care!!

Answer 8

The best way to go is to tell your parents and they will help you after then get over the shock! If you really can't face this there are councillors that can help you and get you ready to talk to your parents go to your doctors and he will advise you and help you, confidential but you do need to at some point tell your parents and the sooner the better as they can help! If you really don't want an abortion (and I say good for you as I'm very anti abortion) you will have to have it and take responsability for it or give up for adopotion but only you, with advice from your parents can decide what to do. Good luck and don't worry!

Answer 9

UGH! I am so tired of all of these questions. If you are too stupid to be doing all of these stupid things, than you know what? You SHOULD be stressing out over this. You can't seriously think that your parents are going to kill you, but still! Get your act together, and show them that even though you made a mistake, you can do your best to handle the situation. Then their anger won't be AS terrible. And if it turns out that you are NOT pregnant, stop doing it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Because someday, it WILL happen FOR REAL.

Answer 10

hey relax take a deep breath! im 18 and have a baby on the way im 39 weeks and 2days. you need to think about your options, 1. have the baby, 2.have the baby and put it up for adoption, 3.abortion.
I didnt tell my parents that i was pregnant until 26weeks along because i thought they would kill me and never suport my decision. You have got to think things through and think through all your options and most importantly what YOU want to do. Don't let any one preasure you into anything you do not want to do,
tell your parents when your ready either your mum or your dad or both together which ever one you feel will be most easiest to talk to. if your scared about confronting them text them or tell them on the phone and say you would like their help in this dilema.
there are many suport groups etc for young mothers that can help you out with deciding and breaking the news to family or partners.
Remember DON'T WORRY! Relax, you don't want to be stressed because it will make things harder for you to cope with. Good luck with what ever decision you make darling and remember there are always people who you can turn to for help or advice, don't think you have to go through anything alone!
i hope this helped put your mind at ease.
xxx

Answer 11

I dont know how old you are hunni but I have a 13 year old daughter and although I would be angry if I discovered she was sexually active and pg I would be more angry (more with myself) if she felt she had to hide it from me and couldnt talk to me .......

It is a natural response for your parents to be shocked and we all deal with shock in different ways - I recently discovered my 13 year old daughter was looking up sites online and was incredibly shocked but I didnt shout - where was that going to get me ?? No one likes to think that their babies (no matter how old) are having sex - same as most people dont like to think that their parents do it ... I was 17 when I fell pg with my first child and my mum shouted but it was the shock she wasnt angry.

You are still at school - you are young and you need the support of your family to get you through this time. Do you have an older sister or perhaps an auntie who you could talk to first and possibly then have her with you when you tell your parents...

Best thing to do though is get it over with - the sooner you tell them the sooner the shock will pass over them and they can support you through this.

Also as others have said if you must be sexually active at least be sensible and use precautions

Good Luck x