Ive told my friends i am pregnant and most are really happy for me. However, there is one friend who sounded positively miserable when i told her. She couldn't even say the word "congratulations" without spitting it out, and its really upset me. She has a daughter of nine, and is now with a new partner. He canot have children and i know she would dearly like another but cannot. She won't consider adoption as it has to be his child or nothing. Whilst I understand her sorrow to a degree, im feeling that its very selfish to act like this to me. I have been a very good friend to her in the past, standing by her when she had no one else would (not even her parents) due to her actions in the past (another long story). OK she can't have another child but she already has one and i feel she is being very unfair towards me. How should I approach this or should i just let it go?
2006-09-26
21:17:41
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Serry's mum
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Pregnancy