yup see theres this guy in my class whos really cute !!! he was there in the sixth grade and he left and now hes back in the 9th grade !!! now hes a rrrreeeeeaaallly good freind of mine and he tells me 3everything and anything about himself !!!! we are each otheres best freinds but i can get myself to tel him he means more then that to me !!!!
2006-09-26 21:05:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
he comes to me with home problems and any thing you can think of !!! he tells me everything !! unfortunatly he comes to me even when he needs help with girls !!!! what should i do ???
2006-09-26 21:07:13 · update #1
im sorry for adding sooo many details but i wanted to add this........ hes presently not intrested in anyone right now !!! so should i make the move(or will that look to trashy ?) ???? should i forget about him ??? or.......WHAT SHOULD I DO ??
2006-09-26 21:09:21 · update #2
Maybe open it up to him by telling him you want him to know exactly where your heart and mind is with him but you in no way want to jeopardize what you have.Let him know that if he doesn't feel the same or prefers not to tell you his thoughts and feelings after hearing yours that's OK as well.But truly be ready in your own mental strength to be able to follow through w/respecting his wishes either way they go,You obviously have bonded through trusting each other and that will carry you through more then you can imagine.As for all the details you gave I personally like it that way it enables the reader to understand the situation more clearly.FYI: My best friend is a male,we have been through SOOO much including trying to date.This began for us in early 2002 to this day I am now engaged to another man and buying a home in walking distance of my best friends house,Point being we took that jump and even strengthened our friendship.I can't imagine my life w/o him,my fiance and him have become friends as well. Good luck in how ever you choose to handle this.I hope this helps.
2006-09-26 22:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by hardworking_ct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you realy need to think if he is really the one you would like to date if he is then you must ask youself if you could stand to lose him as a friend, when you have thought this all through and would still like to date him then go for it try asking him if he would consider dating a friend if he says yes then make your move just remember to be honest with yourself and with him
2006-09-27 11:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him. i had a best friend that was like that to me and i really liked him and i didnt ever tell him i thought i could do it later. then he got into a 4wheeler accident and died. even if he doesnt feel the same youll know you told him and probably feel better. something could happen from it too!
2006-09-27 04:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by MUFASAS MOMMA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. You don't want to look back 5 or ten years from now and find yourself asking, "What if?"
2006-09-27 04:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that he has already fallen for you...... Big Time.....but he is VERY afraid that if he tells you , he will lose you.....Apparently , you are the same way.....Tell him of your love for him and see what develops.....Nothing ventured, nothing gained.....release your inner power and change the world....
2006-09-27 04:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by fusionh2wlh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
conyinue your friendship for a few more months and wait to see if he himself is interested in u or not.If no then ur trrying will just be humiliating.So wait for the best to come and dont hurry for it.ALL THE BEST
2006-09-27 04:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by kool 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since you spend so much time together, sit one day and talk to him, tell how you feel dont hold nothing back and see what happens from there.
2006-09-27 09:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Princess P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to tell you that you need to tell him how you feel. Don't live with regrets. They will haunt you forever. Good luck.
2006-09-27 04:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by There can only be one - (ANSWER) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how he feels about you? if he really like you them go for it. if he just feels as friends,them you know where you stand with him.
2006-09-27 07:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. i think dat wud b d best
2006-09-27 04:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋