When my daughter was 4 months old ,her father and I split. I was very naive, and agreed to $200/month. That was 4 years ago, and my expenses have grown. Her father and I rarely talk , and when I do ask for money he becomes very hostile. He tells me to "get a 2nd job-step up to the plate".I pay for her shelter,food,clothing and over $600 a month for daycare. I make little more than he does, but I believe he lies to me about how much he is making.She sees him every other weekend, and loves him . I do not want any animocity to exist.For my daughters sake. Her grandmother is very helpful, until I bring up taking them to court.I can ask her for money, but I think its his responsibility,not hers. I can make it without the extra help, it just seems so unfair.And it would help.I recently became sick of asking ,"can you buy her a coat,pictures,etc" and being turned away.When I bring it up to his mother she turns into a different person, and not so nice. They act like 200 is a fortune.
2007-11-19
04:51:34
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jjbowen428
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