I'm not trying to do anything illegal or trying to get out debt. This is about something far more persona.... breaking away from a very abusive family, whom I love... and I hate.
I would like to leave them in good terms, but if I do that but then don't contact them, I fear that they may be offended and have more ammunition thrown at me. If I do openly say that I want nothing to do with them, then it eats me up and makes me feel worse.
I would like to live my life without giving anyone else a second thought, and I fear that the only way I can do that is if they think I'm dead. I have since moved nearly 2,000 miles away from where I used to live, but unfortunately, I have taken all the issues with them with me and it is on my mind all the time. I want to make a clean break from them, and I want to do so in good terms. Is this possible?
2007-01-27
09:54:02
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expatriate59
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