I am about to go through a divorce. My house is 20 years old. I have a friend who is a real estate agent and her husband fixes homes. Together they plan to help me with supplies, etc, however, because they are giving me such a great deal, I have to do a lot of the work myself, such as painting. The problem is, I went back to work after 11 years, and my ex (who lives in the house) does nothing to help. Should I refinance my home, take 10,000 out of it, use that to fix it up so it's perfect, then get the most I can out of my money, by listing it Buy Owner? Or, pay my friend, to help me, although I'm doing a lot of the work and I'm having a hard time finding time to do it. I have 3 children and a full-time job. She suggests that i stay in the home and have him move out, but even after I refinance, my income will not be enough to cover my mortgage and all of the upkeep that goes along with a home of this size. Does anyone have any other ideas? Ever been in this situation? Thanks!!
2007-03-01
08:56:05
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