Emotional dependence stems from emotional ABUSE. When a parent convinces their children they are sick, and make them RELY on them, that is a HUMLIATION TACTIC of ABUSE. If people did not have those 'weaknesses' to tide them over till they get to their STRONGER perspective/answer, they would commit suicide.
We all have defense-mechanisms. They are precious to us, they allow us to manage, to cope, and to heal.
They allow us to grow, and to communicate with bounderies.
I am very good, at letting the obnoxious, and irritatingly annoying things go in people, b/c I know how it feels to be tormented by someone who wants to hurt me, just to be sadistic.
We worry TOO much on the HUMILIATING/EMBARASSING/ANNOYING things in people, we do NOT face the REAL/TRUE oppressors.
"Why?"
Because its' hard, and its' time-consuming, and no one wants to deal with the REAL issues.
Theyd rather pick on/cyber-bully the ones who could really be good, precious friends to them.
Like me.
2007-09-18
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