Why do I ejaculate so fast?

Question

When masterbating I usually ejaculate in under 45 seconds -_- its really annoying, I'd like to go longer and its embarassing to.
When having sex with my girlfriend I ejaculate usually within 1 or 2 mins and I never get to give her enough pleasure.. I really would like to, I know foreplay can help, and I have been doing it alot more often.. but I would like to last longer.
Anyone know what I could do, or why I ejaculate so fast?

Thanks

Answer 1

Practice control on your own. Masturbate and when you feel your orgasm approaching, immediately ease back on the stimulation enough to keep yourself from ejaculating. When you have things under control, increase the stimulation again until you feel the orgasm approaching again and cut back. Repeat this as many times as you can before finally letting yourself go over the edge to orgasm. Do this every day until you canm control yourself effectively, then try having sex with your girlfriend and use the same technique. She will greatly appreciate the fact that you are trying to improve your technique and this will make sex better for both of you. A bonus for you is that if you hold back for as long as possible, your eventual orgasm will be much more powerful and pleasurable.

Answer 2

It sounds like it's just them. But it usually take a man 3-4 mins to climax and takes a woman about a half hour. So it depends on what you guys are doing and how new they are to sexual actives. The newer they are the fast ejaculate and if they have PE(premature ejacualtion) problems that could be another reason. It's very common with teenage guys has to do with self-esteem and it they masturbate to much. If anything let them do the work first get you going first then when your ready you take your turn. Also tease them...start and stop a couple of times.

Answer 3

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Why do I ejaculate so fast?
When masterbating I usually ejaculate in under 45 seconds -_- its really annoying, I'd like to go longer and its embarassing to.
When having sex with my girlfriend I ejaculate usually within 1 or 2 mins and I never get to give her enough pleasure.. I really would like to, I know foreplay can...

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Answer 5

Well, 4 sure. Ur pc muscle is not strong enough to maintain long desirable sex. Don't worry though, you can exercise ur pc muscle. Ther is an exercise called Kegels. You locate ur pc muscle by urinating - then try an stop the flow of urination. that is the kegal muscle. On a regular basis, just exercise the muscle 100 a day. You squeeze the pc muscle, an over time - it gets stronger. Making you last longer - an prevent premature ejaculation. That is what is happening to you, premature ejaculation.

Answer 6

It really is mindset. Some exercises you can do though are kegels and edging (google the terms for more info), which really, truly work.

A kind of "cheat" could be to masturbate an hour or more before you are planning on having sex.

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Answer 7

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Answer 8

Pretty much it all depends on how hard and fast you do your lady. If you keep it at a nice and steady pace you'll have a lot more time. Roll play helps a lot too. The average sex tim is 30 min up to an hour ( including the little things such as oral sex, kissing,remove of clothing, and so on)

Answer 9

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Answer 10

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