I'm 21 years old and just had sex for the first time about a month ago. We used a Trojan Ultra Ribbed Lubricated condom. It hurt quite a bit and I was just finishing my period. I had sex again (with a different guy) this past weekend, and it hurt so much that we couldn't finish. We used NYC condoms. We had a lot of foreplay beforehand, and we used lube, but it still hurt. It even hurt when he used his finger to go in deep. We tried again two nights ago, but it was the same story. I have pain when urinating immediately after sex and also sometimes later in the day or the following day.
As a sidenote, I just recently bought the Rabbit vibrator. I can't insert it beyond just the tip and it starts to hurt when I try.
Could I have some kind of infection?
2007-09-18 16:53:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Sex can hurt the first several times. You may have had a thicker hymen, too, which can take several times to break. Since you're using lubricant and getting enough foreplay, that's the only thing I can think of. You could have an infection, though. Do you know if the first guy was clean??? You may ought to go see a GYN to be sure. Never a bad idea to get checked.
BTW, I have the rabbit vibrator and it's awesome!! You'll love it when you can use it without pain!!
2007-09-18 17:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My girlfriend, when we were first together complained that the ultra ribbed condoms made her very sore, due to the ribbs in them....maybe the textured condom made you very sensitive?? Especially if the intercourse was somewhat....how do i say this...rough..haha. You could have some sensitivity to latex??? anything is possible...and as for it hurting...it sounds like you might have a bit of a Urinary track infection, it is because of bacteria being forced into the urethra during intercourse, happened to my girlfriend as well!! Don't forget, you are new to sex so you are probably not used to it yet... down there is stretching and getting used to a different lifestyle. You need to go see a gyno since you have become sexually active if you have not already. If you do not have the money then visit your nearest PlannedParenthood. Where you can recieve birthcontrol and check ups for free! Another precaution to take is, if possible, make sure that his hands are clean when touching your intimate areas, also make sure your toy is clean before use to prevent any infections, i hope i could be of some help!! Good luck and i hope things start to get better
sorry i forgot to say, you should drink alot of water and tea to flush the bacteria out of your urethra......drink alot of it until your pain is relieved, also you should go purchase some Cranberry juice it gives almost instant relief!!!!
2007-09-19 00:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, it could be that his peen irritated your outer labia and maybe it swelled up. Once thats swelled up, it hurts and gets so puffy you might not be able to have a penis or a finger enter you. Also it could be that you're still not "broken". Since you lost your virginity so recently, you're probably really tight.
2007-09-19 00:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋