I just got out of a very commited relationship with someone that broke my heart. It's been 3 months, and I'm still grieving. We were suppose to get married last Saturday, but I broke things off with him because he wasn't supportive during a family trauma. I am finding it hard to trust in another person that asked to be with me. I met him shortly before I broke it off with my ex during the time my family went through trauma, and he was there for us. We have a lot in common, which I find really surprising, but I don't feel any romantic interest for him and he's already said that he's in love with me and sees a future with me. I appreciate he's been there for me and my family so I've already said I am interested. But I think I spoke too soon. I'm scared because I've had my trust shattered. But I also feel like I have a responsibility to be with him, and I know that's not a healthy relationship. How do I break things off with him? I don't want to tell him I've had suicidal thoughs.
2007-09-18
02:13:09
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Jess
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Mental Health