We broke up last week from a long term relationship. He was confused he said he wanted to be with me but were young and he hasnt done anything in life. Like experienced the world. And hes been pushing me and his best friend away. His best friend said i need to call him the sooner the better. And i did but he want there he was at a soccer game. I dont know what his deal is. He says he loves me and hes scared of commitment. I left a message on his phone a nice one letting him know i just want to talk to him. He told me to call when i was ready and he still wants to be close and hang out. So why is he still being distant from me and his bestfriend? hes never been like this. should i call him again if i dont hear from him in a few days or a week or should i let him come to me? im just afraid that he wont come to me since hes pushing me away for no apparent reason.... HELP!!
2007-09-18 16:26:34 · 2 answers · asked by KGcutie 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
He sounds like he's depressed. let him come to you. as long as he knows people care about him, he'll be fine. Alot of kids just get into a funk for no apparent reason, and just need some space. Concentrate on you and keep your self busy. Best of luck.
2007-09-18 16:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by gowpet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be depressed. If he's telling you to call, but then not returning your calls, I wouldn't call him anymore. Sounds like maybe he wants you around when he wants you and doesn't when he doesn't. I have a similar problem with that one with a friend. He may just need some time to figure out what he wants. In the meantime, maybe you need to get out and experience the world yourself. You may find someone who is not so commitment phobic.
2007-09-18 23:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋