Weddings - December 2007

just me and her..... is this possible wat culture allows this....i'd just like private setting .......where we do the wedding thing....than maybe make it legal in america..ya know

2007-12-08 12:05:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

of saying it we want to include it somewhere in the invitation. I no that there are cute poems and stuff. Any help will be much appreciated, thanks

2007-12-08 12:02:40 · 15 answers · asked by channy 2

I have a very alternative view of marriage, and things in general, and buying a ring, especially with an expensive shiny rock on it, feels really foreign and stupid to me. So I'm looking for an alternative to the whole "diamonds are forever, blow two months salary" sort of thing. I'm thinking something oceanic would be nice. My girlfriend and I are surf fanatics.

2007-12-08 11:46:18 · 27 answers · asked by questioner 1

I am the maid of honor for my friend. I offered to host a bridal shower, but the bride chose to have the party at one of the bridesmaid's houses. The bridesmaid told me "I win! Ha Ha!" She also said, "My husband and I would be honored to host the party."

Since her house is too small, she will be renting a tent and heaters, and also renting game tables. At my house, we wouldn't need a tent and I have a pool table, so we wouldn't have to rent games either.

Do I have to contribute to the cost of this party even if the bridesmaid is hosting? Doesn't the host of a party pay for the party? (All the bridesmaids could have hosted a shower at her house, but she has said she's hosting).

And should I really have to pay these extra rental costs when I wouldn't have had to pay them at my house?

If the shower was at my house, I wouldn't have expected anyone else to pay, but I don't want to pay for a party that I don't get to plan and don't even get the credit as host.

2007-12-08 11:28:02 · 26 answers · asked by Carrie O'Labrador 4

from my fiance's friend, who owns a cake shop and he has quoted us £300.00 for a 2 tier cake all chocolate cake, no mention of a discount

This price does not include out names being on the cake!

This friend who owns the cake shop expects to also come to the wedding and eat the food, listen and dance to the music at the reception blah blah blah!

Do you think is the correct wedding manners from the baker?

2007-12-08 11:12:30 · 10 answers · asked by Rebz 5

I have chosen this dress:
http://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii131/do_what_you_love/Clara_B.jpg

http://www.verawang.com - Go to Maids, Full length, No. 5, 13 and 25.

My after party dress is: http://www.verawang.com - Go to Bridal, Vera Wang, No.10

Thanks!!

2007-12-08 11:11:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know biblically it's wrong to have a prenup and be a christian it's something I have struggled with however I have decided prenup is a must..Is it true that a pastor will not marry you if you have a prenup?

2007-12-08 11:08:56 · 7 answers · asked by steve g 1

So, my fiancee is wants to get me another ring for my engagement. She wants one that looks really spiffy and will stay looking nice. Plus, she wants to be able to add the full quote that she originally wanted to (I have a ring from her now, but through a series of events don't have it inscribed the way we wanted it). So, I posit this question for all of you.

Which ring do you guys like better?

This one...http://www.titaniumera.com/catalog/detail?cid=691&pid=1144

which will have our saying on the outside, and a personal message on the inside.

or...http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=8269408

this one, which will just have the message on the inside.

I love them both and am having a hard time deciding, so I just want to see what others think.

2007-12-08 10:47:08 · 24 answers · asked by Dan 2

Stuck between these two:

http://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii131/do_what_you_love/christina_hurvis_bridal3.jpg

http://www.verawang.com/ - Go to Bridal, Vera Wang, No. 10.

2007-12-08 10:08:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I have my engagement ring and was looking at it one day and noticed initials FDJ on the inner band. We didn't get it engraved and don't know what it stands for. Do you think that this was someone elses ring and returned it and Jared Jewelers then they went around and sold it to us. Wouldn't they have to tell you that before you bought the ring? I'm kinda mad about this. What do you guys think?

2007-12-08 09:36:12 · 15 answers · asked by Justice07 3

Please help!

I want to get the best quality diamond engagement ring for the price. I am concerned about buying on on Blue Nile without seeing it!

Is $7,000 a decent budget for a nice diamond ring?

Thanks for all your help!

2007-12-08 08:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by BaseballFan4Ever 4

meaning like..can you get engaged for a long time?..like in 2 or years?

2007-12-08 08:19:35 · 56 answers · asked by dz_crzylilgrl 2

We really don't have much money and my partners mother is going to help us out alot (her choice) even though she hasn't much money, my parents have loads more but are quite stingy, should I ask them to help out and how much should I hope thy contribute?

2007-12-08 07:54:46 · 35 answers · asked by Yoyo 1

I mean their own favourite dresses obviously!

2007-12-08 07:46:57 · 28 answers · asked by Yoyo 1

My husband is presbyterian and i am converting to catholicism. We would like to have a church blessing for our renewal of vows. I was married once before (not as a christian or a catholic), and I was wondering if I can have a priest bless our marriage even though I was married before?

2007-12-08 07:37:40 · 14 answers · asked by Leslie Y 2

People find that outrageous; yet, the man is supose to kneel and beg the woman to marry him.

2007-12-08 07:36:21 · 52 answers · asked by Defender of GoodDestroyerofEvil 4

I just found out I'm going to get married, and I told my friend (who I have always planned on having as my maid of honor) and I was really put off by how she responded. Everyone has been so excited because me and my new fiance are so close and have dated for 2 1/2 years. She was more like, "This is a big decision; I hope you're making the right one." I just felt like "Who are you, and don't you know me at all?"

Later in the conversation I mentioned that I might not want to do the typical wedding party with a formal "maid of honor" because my fiance does not have one particularly close friend to name as a best man. She would still have the traditional "Maid of honor" spot at the wedding. But she made me feel really bad about this choice too.

I feel a lot closer to one of my other friends right now, and she has been a big help in getting me started on planning and listening to all of my ideas. Should I place her as MOH, or stick to my choice of having both? Or neither? Why?

2007-12-08 07:06:08 · 10 answers · asked by Christine 6

I would like to hear from both sides about their experiences wiht David's Bridal. My sister in law is getting married and wants me to get my daughter's dress from there. My daughter is 7 and the wedding isn't for another 8 months. I know it takes time for ordering, but what happens when they won't return my dress and give me the right size????? Anyone have experiences with exchanges??

2007-12-08 06:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by Someonesmommy 5

Some people just presume they are going to be invited. People I know very casually through association and don't even know my fiance.

My mother said it's wrong to be blunt and that's just being rude.

Your thoughts?

2007-12-08 05:14:52 · 21 answers · asked by Jazzy 4

Also, for wedding registries, what would be a good price range to be in?

2007-12-08 04:33:06 · 12 answers · asked by Now SC 1

From Texas, getting married in California. Twelve people have already booked flights.My Dad gave my sis 10K in 1991, but says he can only offer me 2500-3000. Should I be hurt? What do I do? His excuse is that his retirement money is running low. I am 35 and he also says he did not know if I would ever get married. This is the man who has to walk me down the aisle. Do I cancel this whole thing? I think the real issue is that it is not the Catholic wedding my mom wanted me to have in Texas.Also she has a bad prescription addiction which my dad funds.What do ya'll think I should do?I am at a loss...

2007-12-08 02:56:19 · 23 answers · asked by kala 2

2007-12-08 02:41:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

But the thing is..its not an *engagement* ring..it was just an upgrade for the ring I already have... the ring he first bought me a couple years ago was a 1/4 CT marquese 3 stone w/ accent baquettes (SP?)...this ring is a 1/2 carat princess cut 3 stone w/ circle accent diamonds .the 3 diamonds have the 4 stone effect where its 4 diamonds creating one whole one...I love the ring..but I am kind of disapointed it doesn't have that *special meaning*...he gave it to me as an early christmas present...We was in the kitchen and he hands it to me and says *merry christmas*. it was exactly what i wanted for an engagement ring...but of course he was not on one knee...he asked if i liked it because I guess I had a look on my face like I didn't but I did.. i think I was just bummed out he didn't ask me to marry him. :-(

He said maybe one day I will get a bigger one if we ever did get engaged...I mean the ring he already gave me is plenty! has this ever happened to anyone??

2007-12-08 01:58:57 · 6 answers · asked by AnGeLa 2

With your answer, please indicate your gender, age, what # marriage this is for you, and the reason for your decision (yes or no)

2007-12-08 01:27:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi
We are getting married in March and its both our second marriage and we have everything we need and we don't want people to feel obligated to buy us gifts....some of our relatives might not be able to afford it....are we being rude?.....and what do we put on the invitations as far as no gifts or do we put anything at all? Please any advise would be greatly appreciated....Thank You and Have A Blessed Day

2007-12-08 00:00:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

dob : 03/08/1983
place mumbai
time 06:33 am

please reply

2007-12-07 23:34:45 · 12 answers · asked by abhishek_ronny 1

My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years just joined the US Navy, so we had a quick ceremony to get our marriage license before he left. the "wedding" will be in a few months when he's back. Problem: my Dad HATES my husband. Long story: we have a 4 year age difference & had sex before i was 18.. i was 17. & im almost 20 now.. dad read my texts and found out, & hated him since. anyway. my dad (step dad-he adopted me when i was 8 b/c my bio dad left us) & i have always had a rough relationship. we always argued when i lived w/ them,he has said terrible things to me, & never apologized. my mom said shed never forgive me if i dont ask him to walk me down the aisle.. but i dont think i want him to. he hasn't talked to me since we got married, and i dont feel right "begging" him to walk me. he would be hurt if i didnt ask, but he's hurt me too. my brother has been the only real man in my life, and want him to do it.. i hate to cause drama, but i want this to be the best day of my husband and i's life??

2007-12-07 20:31:59 · 23 answers · asked by navywife07 2

I will just state this, my fiance's friends and bar buddies decided that it was "okay" to try to beat up my friend. He is an international student.. doesn't drink that much.. and puked in "their" bar. Everyone says "he has an attitude" (most gentle creature you could imagine), but they want to beat him up because he puked a bit in their bar.

I'm really Pi$$ed at my fiance for taking up for them. What would you do if you were in this situation?

A) It's the bartenders job to clean it up B) it's my fiance's friend and bar buddies creating a BIG situation C) My friend is the nicest person you could meet.

His best man is even in on this!

2007-12-07 20:20:19 · 14 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

My 19 year old son is getting married very soon.
We sent an invitation to my brother and his wife by dropping off the invitation in their letterbox(hand delivery).
When we asked them a week later if they were coming to the wedding my brother said, "We didn't receive the wedding invitation".
So I said, "no drama I will put you down as coming"
Anyway, in the next few days, my son and his fiance receive an RVSP saying they couldn't come.
So my mum rang my brother up and said to his wife - "are you coming to the wedding and she replies, "We didn't receive the invitation".
My mother talks privately to my brother and says, "so, you are not coming to the wedding and he says, we didn't receive the invitation.
But..they must have and we think his wife has sent the RSVP.
So, now they are not coming.
Should I (mother) and my son (and his fiance) be upset.
I wish they would just have told the truth.They sent the RVSP slip that was in the invitation slip.

2007-12-07 19:54:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an idea of what I like, but I don't know what REALLY looks the best as far as sillouetts. I know he will ask, it's just a matter of when. He even told me tonight that he will ask me a certain question along with something for my finger. I want to have my gown designed for me, but I would like a starting point referance. So, would it be bad luck to just go try some on?

2007-12-07 19:10:59 · 12 answers · asked by bluefish787 3