My fiance is in the Army and for financial and other reasons we got married civilly last Nov, but noone knows except my sister. We are having a Catholic ceremony and big reception this Oct. When we originally wanted to marry civilly, I wanted my family's ok, but my Dad blew up and would not condone it, he's very traditional. We did it anyway b/c it was the best for us and our situation. I'm afraid to tell the priest b/c I don't want to have just a renewing of the vows...if my Dad found out we're already married the whole day/night would be a disaster. However, I may have to tell the priest b/c he's going to ask to sign the license.....which we already have dated last Nov.
I'm willing to do whatever it takes to have a normal ceremony, how do I do it?? Please note, I really am a good Catholic, law-abiding, normal, kind person....just in a difficult situation!
2007-03-28
16:12:59
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beverlyaj2002
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