The Marriage Question?

Question

What are the 5 important aspects that you look for in
the girl that you will be marrying......???????

Hope GIRLS dont get angry by this question....who cares ~~~~

i feel if girls are mature enough then they will take the answers given by boys as positive cause its a lifetime question for both.

hearty regards to all who answered and those reading them.

Answer 1

I am a girl but will answer (hope you don't mind) - input from husband was used extensively
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1. Love you have to love her not feel that sort of fondness - I mean love in like you miss her when she is not around.

Look at the 2 main reasons for divorce. (sex and money)
2. You need to be sexually compatible and in lust (this often simmers down later in a relationship but the steam has to be there for the simmer to work). Sexual compatibility is really important , you need to feel comfortable with each other's sexual tastes.
3. Money - you don't have to have the same amount of money but a similar attitude is important. How you get along about money issues count.
4. You need to have fun together - how this works depends on the relationship but there needs to be a degree of friendship in there and friends have fun, whether its the same sense of humour, hobbies etc. You are going to be spending a lot of time together so would you choose her as a friend that you could be stuck on a desert island with.
5. Attiitudes is my number 5 and is broad. You need to have the same attitudes, similar backgrounds can help but similar ideas of where you are going are important (house, number of kids, where do you want to live...)

I would like to throw in a number 6 (woman can never stop talking..) - how you argue. How do you argue with each other and have you learned to argue constructively and how and how long it takes to make up.

Good luck, lots of love in your future marriage.

Answer 2

1. Are you emotionally, financially, physically, and spiritually compatible?
2. Are both of your lives going in a similar direction?
3. Can you live together and still love each other?
4. Do you have similar opinions, or can reach an agreement on topics such as children, pets, residences, finances, and future plans.
5. Do you love her enough to spend the rest of your life with only her?

Answer 3

THIS can not be answered as what you see,get,discover and demand would never match so keeping analysis at a distance is good thing!

Be happy till the time Heart says YES and TRY to remian happy thereafter!!!!!

Answer 4

Honesty ... work ethic ... modesty ... responsible ... mature

Answer 5

Cook, clean, suck, swollow, and doesn't speak English