2007-03-28 18:49:54 · 12 answers · asked by sonz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
personally, i would get married 1st then have a baby. but i guess it depends on your age too. if the person is old enough like in their 30's and is financially stable then maybe that person would like to have a baby 1st. so this is a personal decision. but if your younger than 30 then i think you should wait til you find the right person, get married, and then hv a beautiful baby and live happily ever after. that would be ideal. good luck. think twice before having a baby. it's a big decision. take care.
2007-03-28 18:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by blueflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, unless of course your lifetime goal is to be a guest on the Maury show...
I can't imagine why anyone would want to do it the other way around... having a child with someone is a much bigger commitment than getting married! It's easy enough to get a divorce from someone ... but once you've had a child together they are in your life in some manner FOREVER. Marry them first... that doctor's advice to hold off on having the children for a few years was bang on. Make sure they are a keeper before making them a breeder :)
2007-04-01 12:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by endorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should get married first and whatever you do...make sure he is the right one for you before you get pregnant. There is nothing worse than having a child and then the relationship doesn't work out and you are stuck having to deal with him for the rest of your life. Or he takes off and you end up having to raise your child on your own. Remember...having a child is a lifetime commitment. Once you are pregnant there is no turning back. Make sure you take a good look at the dad too. Is this the man you want to help you raise your child and have a permanent bond to? Just a thought.
2007-03-28 20:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mich Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had babies first and now I am getting married. I suggest getting married first!! I wish I did.
2007-03-29 17:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally believe in sex AFTER marriage.
so, yes, you should get married first before you have a baby. BUT keep in mind that you don't just get married to get a baby. getting a baby involves responsibility, discipline, commitment, character. you must be mentally ready to be a parent and financially ready to get a child before you do things you'll regret...
2007-03-28 20:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would personally say yes just because I beleive marriage and children are forever. You want to marry someone that you can spend the rest of your life with and also he should be someone who can be a good father to your children.
2007-03-29 01:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by SupaDupaWoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe that is the way to do things. Other people have other ideas, but that's what I think. Marriage first, then babies.
2007-03-28 19:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your age and are u in love with the father don't forget money it takes about 18'000 2 raise achild 2 18
2007-03-28 19:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should get married before having sex.
2007-03-28 21:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by ≈[⇒Lauren⇐]≈™ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, then wait until the second anniversary to discuss babies
the first year is a honeymoon
the second year is the real life
then decide about children
2007-03-29 01:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋