To put things shortly, to her, I am unworthy. Unworthy of her respect or toleration. She doesn't support the wedding and I don't want to invite her. But she is my Fiance's mother, and I know I could never get married without my mom being there! (of course my mom LOVES my fiance and is actually paying for EVERYTHING) My big concern is what she will wear. We all just went to a friends wedding and she showed up in ratty sweatpants and a sweatshirt. This will not fly at our formal wedding, and I do not want this in our pictures. I have tried to tell my fiance to talk to her, but he grew up the only boy with no communication skills. They don't talk aout feelings PERIOD in that home. I have tried to be nice. I asked him just to find out her size and I would search the internet for her, nice elegant pant suits. (She grew up country and she's probably about a size 32) I don't know what else I can do other than help look for her. Left up to her she would come in those sweatpants. What can I do?
2007-01-12
05:29:38
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LiveInLove14
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