My fiance and I have been living in our own apartment for a year now. We are 15 weeks from our wedding date, and our lease is up in mid-january. He plans on moving down to his Dad's house, in with his brother. (His dad does not live there, only his brother, who is 22.) He wants me to move with him also, but I'm really not sure I'm comfortable with the idea. The plan is to live there until April, before the wedding, and then buy a house. I know we don't have any real choices, other than myself, going to stay with my mom until we can have our own place again. Should I move with him, to live with his brother, even though I'm not comfortable, or should I just go my own way until we are married? I just really don't want to feel like we have a third wheel all of the time, cooking and cleaning for 3 people, and having no alone time, isn't appealing at all to me. I don't mind doing those things for my fiance, but I don't want to do them for his grown brother. Any advice?
2006-12-27
11:09:54
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