I'm getting married in few months and I'm a little bit confused and worried about the wedding the dress the future everything espacially that we will live in a different country away from friends and family, I know these feelings are normal but how can I stop thinking all the time?
2006-12-27 08:39:14 · 15 answers · asked by sahar el2amar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Call off the wedding until you can calm your *** down.
2006-12-27 08:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl!!! I'm in your same boat. I'm getting married in March. While I'm so excited about the wedding, I can't help being confused/worried/anxious about so much that is going on. When I start to "freak" out about the wedding, what I do is I try to focus on what matters the most...the fact that I'm marrying the man I love more than anything in the whole wide world, my best friend, and the person that is always there for me through think and thin and that is what is really the most important thing about my wedding day, not the dress, the flowers, who was there, what we ate or anything like that. Usually I'm able to calm myself down by just focusing on this one simple fact.You might give it a try! I hope it helps, even a little bit. Congratulations on your marriage!
2006-12-27 08:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by FutureMrsMarsalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. That is, the confusion, worries, etc. But. If you have the exact same (intense) feelings for more than a week, I'd say you should re-think everything. If, however, you feel like you're riding a roller-coaster, and some days are great and other just stink, well, that's pretty much par for the course. But it gets better, believe me, as the honeymoon tends to iron out all your former worries and preoccupations.
2006-12-27 08:45:30 · answer #3 · answered by James O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing would be to start out getting one of those large wedding plan books that outlines the things you will want to remember and do before the big day. Start at the begining and do not think about anything except each stage as it comes... that will help you focus and not have to worry that you missed something so that you do not have to feel overwhelmed. By all means to NOT call off the wedding... this is perfectly normal.
2006-12-27 08:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Codi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing is to ask the lord all these questions that are bothering you. the wedding ,the dress ,Your parents are there to help you for you are their little girl that grown into a women . and as for your future nobody know what it gonna be. but if go into this marriage believing in THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AS THEIR SAVIOUR and live one day at a time and have him by your side you'll have a good marriage. now living in another country from family and friends those feeling will be with all the time but there is email, there is messenger ,there is voice activated messenger and cells phones that will keep you in contact with family and friends. then if you are good penical and paper you can write them. I PRAY AND HOPE THE ANSWERS I GAVE YOU WILL HELP. PASTOR RONALD J. FOSTER at goodstuff4love@yahoo.com
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2006-12-27 09:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by goodstuff4love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and relax. Easier said then done I know. Try to look forward to your new beginning in a new place. You can stay in contact with all your family and friends. Look forward to meeting new people and making new friends. Get a job soon after the move so you can be around other people and make friends. You should be so excited. Congratulations! And Best Wishes!
2006-12-27 08:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. This should be an exciting time for you....yes there is stress, but it shouldn't be the ONLY thing you think about. Go get a massage, shut all the lights off, light some candles, and listen to music. Just take a day to do NOTHING.
2006-12-27 08:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by AmyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just calm down and talk 2 ur fianc'e he will understand ur concerns and worries chances r he has some worrys 2 take a dep breath and try and get ur mind of it do stuff u did when u were little like ride ur bike or watch ur fave old cartoon just b free and have fun ur still young know! ;)
2006-12-27 12:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by will_bloom_hinata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and have a good time at the wedding and abroad. Your doing fine Congratulations the very best to you both.
2006-12-27 08:43:26 · answer #9 · answered by papabear098 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulations chill u have a few months it is not like the wedding is tomorrow just have fun tomorrow and then concentrate occasionally take breaks
2006-12-27 12:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by j.j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the wonderful life your going to have with your new husband, and possibly making a family of your own.
2006-12-27 08:59:05 · answer #11 · answered by crazy2733 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋