well i am only 14 and one of my friend that is way older then me proposed me and i said yes but i just cant believe i said yes cuz i am happy cuz i love him but i just fill weird cuz i am so young to have a pre-husband, help me!
it is normal to have choosed my husband already?
2006-12-27 10:34:22 · 19 answers · asked by sabsc13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
if he has a new car do it, if not stay with your ten speed!
and all these other women are just jealous of you!
2006-12-27 11:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by mr s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you are way too young to get married...but not too young to be in love. If you really feel that you do love this guy then hang in there with him and see how it goes. You can be engaged for years without getting married. But if I married the guy I was with when I was 14 I'm pretty sure I would be unhappy now. Keep your options open but that doesn't mean you have to break up!
2006-12-27 10:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by duvalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 12:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I hope you don't plan on being engaged at no 14 years old. This aint the 1700's... you need to let that guy know there is NO engagement. What the hell are ya'll thinking. Wait atleast 4 more years, if you wanna get married that bad!
2006-12-27 10:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably said "yes" because it just sounds so romantic and grown up. Unfortunately, even though you feel like you are, your not grown up yet at 14. Tell him you are sorry, but you just can't marry him now. I have a feeling he won't offer to hang around because, most likely, he only asked you to marry him because he wants to have sex with you. There is a say that goes like this: "a guy uses love to get sex and a girl uses sex to get love." Think about it.
2006-12-27 10:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Margie M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you just said "it is normal to have choosed my husband"
Your not off to a good start. You should be concentrating on school and not boys.
2006-12-29 13:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by boringgirl07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he might be your husband now but you don't know how you are gonna feel about him a couple of years or moths later! So just tell him you feel weird and you think that you and him should just take things slow for know before taking that stepp again!
2006-12-27 11:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're a bit too young to get married. In most places you'd probably have to wait several years anyway to get married legally!
Tell the guy you'll be his girlfriend.
2006-12-27 12:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by ccf4980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way older? how much older? first of all, you are 14, you have not really lived (on your own), have not grown into the person you will become and you have so much life ahead of you- guys to meet, people to trust and so much fun! Dont throw that away!
2006-12-27 11:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by FRESH_PEACH_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was engaged at 16, I was lucky that I never went through with it, all he wanted was sex and once he put that ring on my finger that's all he could talk about and you kno what.... he walked when he figured out that he was still not going to get any. my advice is that if you love him wait it out don't go rushing to the alter. finish school get a good education before you even think about getting married
2006-12-27 10:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your 14 your way 2 young you r still a teenager are u crazy live your life while you still young dont waist it while your still young
2006-12-27 12:02:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋