dear all, i need your help....have you ever had problems about deciding where to live once you get married?i mean, how did you deal with a situation in which one partner wants to go back to his hometown (very little town) and live in his cousin's empty house...namely, i agreed with my fiance that we would not leave this city and rent an apartment HERE. Suddenly he comes and says that his cousin in his hometown offered him to live in his house for free until he gets a bank loan to buy an apartment. my fiance was thrilled with the idea.however, for me it is a TRAGEDY to go to work from one city to another town because i work 12 hours a day and dont want to sit and chat with the entire family of his that would out of boredom come and sit with us in the evenings. i would be for nothing after work. however, now he says i didnt give enough arguments. i told him i would be unhappy and really unhappy. now he is not answering the phone, he told me that he will not be the first one to call :(
2006-11-21
00:43:55
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LadyPandora
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