My dad is marrying this girl that I hate, how do I get them to break up?
2006-11-20 20:41:31 · 22 answers · asked by Jaye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Just because you hate the girl you can't break them up as this will break your dad's heart and he will not forgive you for it. You need to work out why you don't like her and if it's because of something that she has done or said well then you either have to have a word with her about it or your dad.
However don't make your dad have to choose between you and her, because that isn't fair. However it might make you feel better if you have a quiet word about her to your dad, say that while you appreciate that he loves this girl, you feel that you haven't not to know her and you don't know enough about her. But as long as he is happy that is the most important thing to you.
Don't try and break them up because it might back fire and if it does you will feel the brunt of it
2006-11-20 22:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two one in all you're patently no longer any the place close to waiting to make a marriage dedication. He figured that out till now you probably did. What, became this an arranged marriage? Why have his father call your father to cancel HIS wedding ceremony plans? What a freaking coward. He would not prefer to marry you in view which you have anger matters and additionally you're against his kinfolk. 2 extensive problems. once you're with a guy, you inherit his kinfolk, like it or no longer. And, in case you're on the outs with them, then there is rigidity that reasons very enormous problems. That, inclusive of your anger matters is an extremely good reason to no longer get married. He could o.k. have thoughts for you yet thoughts do no longer a marriage make. His kinfolk ability plenty to him and he has made his determination. you could desire to appreciate that something is very incorrect for a guy to call off a marriage purely 5 weeks till now the marriage ceremony date. in case you make an effort to be user-friendly with your self and get out of denial, then you somewhat could have the flexibility to work out that your dating became no longer what you concept it to be. i think in case you prefer him back and he's prepared to this point you lower back, then you somewhat somewhat ought to flow get some expert help on your anger matters and talk the dating problems you have been ignoring. additionally, your former fiance has some matters he needs to handle. One, being a guy.
2016-10-17 07:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by binnu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last time I looked we didn't live on the planet Jordan. YOU aren't marrying her your dad is. Everyone has the right to make mistakes including your dad(and you). How would you like it if someone you "loved" tried to break up your relationship? Would YOU be ok with that
2006-11-20 20:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you hate her- do you have a good reason?? Is the the "Other woman?" If so then it is understandable= and they will get to the point where they can't ever trust ea. other- they will be wondering it the other is faithful- now if you mom has passed away- sorry to hear it- it seems many men don't like being wifeless and get very lonely-you can't get them to break up- they make their own choices-and live w the consequences-D
2006-11-20 23:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if your dad is in love and this woman makes him happy why do you want to call it off. I believe you are just thinking of yourself and being selfish. You want your dad happy right. Dont try to make him break it off and just try to work out your relationship with her.
2006-11-20 20:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by dagoodlookingoklahoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! Your Dad is entitled to his own life, his life does not revolve around you no matter what you think. If this woman makes him happy, you should be pleased for him, not try to make his life miserable. What you are doing is emotional blackmail it is unfair to him and will ultimately ruin your relationaship with him, he will never forgive you if you cause a break-up.
2006-11-20 20:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what you would be doing...if your dad loves her and she makes him happy, then why deny him that right?? Even though you aren't a fan of her why shouldn't your father be happy? No on eis asking you to like what is going on, but you should be supportive of your father.
2006-11-21 01:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant get him to call off his wedding. He loves that woman and wants to spend the rest of his life with her. You should voice your concerns to your father, but I greatly doubt he will call of his wedding.
2006-11-21 01:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.You would'nt want your dad to do that to you.If it's a mistake,he'll soon see that.Have you thought about why you hate her? I've heard that when we dislike someone,it's usually because we see something in them that we don't like in ourselves.Respect his wishes as you would want his respect.
2006-11-20 22:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by little loved one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Your dad is an adult and is entitled to marry whoever he wants, not who you like. If you liked her you'd be marrying her. Leave him alone.
2006-11-20 20:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by supensa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋