My ex-boyfrend and his fiancee, a woman I dated and was best friends with for two years, is getting married this August. The break-up with the man was about as horrible as any break-up ever could be. For about a year before the break-up, the three of us were a committed manage a trois, and we expected to live together in the future.The woman and I never really broke up, we still see each other every once in a while, but the romance is pretty much gone. We're still friends, though I tend to avoid her fiancee because he didn't take the break-up very well.
They sent me a wedding invitation this morning. I don't know what to think of it- if they sent me an invitation, does that mean they want me to go, or they want to be polite and fully expect me not to go? Do I look rude if I don't go? I don't know if I want to go, though most of my friends will be there, and I'd like to give the couple a gift and let them know I'm happy for them. I just don't know what the polite thing to do is.
2006-07-26
10:03:49
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