Two weeks after my fiance and I were engaged his older brother popped the question to his girlfriend. My fmil told me that she never was happy that we were engaged, and that she now had a wedding to look forward too. She origianlly told me she would help fund the "traditional" groom's family expenses...but now has agreed and paid over 6,000 bucks to attend a cruise where the older brother is getting married. She told me the other day that she just can't afford to go on the cruise and help us with our "traditional" wedding so we are on our own. I'm a bit hurt by this, especially since she has never been supportive during our entire 6 year relationship. There are other times in the past when she has told my finace to get rid of me, and she has not supported him in his schooling (when he chose to go to law school she asked why he felt he had to out-do everyone, and that he would fail). She is always putting her sons against each other and I'm going crazy!! Any advice?
2006-07-25
08:23:43
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