Read On - Okay before all you ladies say that I am a sicko & deserve to go to hell please read the details. I went to my ex girlfriends bachelorette party the other day (which happened to be the day before her wedding) . .. . . I banged her after midnight & she got married that same day. I was willing . . her 'friend' coaxed her into it & gave her some tequila to get things moving. Long story short . . . I got 'er done something nice. The next day when we were at her wedding she wouldn't even talk to me at the reception. . . was I wrong to bag her on her wedding day?
2006-07-25 04:39:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
wished it was me, but i'd have to say probably no wronger than it was for her to bag you. chances are her marriage won't last to long either.
2006-07-25 04:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by VISKI 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Do you even have to ask? Yes! It was wrong. You knew she was getting married. And the so-called "friend" of hers should feel equally terrible and guilty and the bride should be equally upset with the said "friend" for coaxing her into the situation and helping with the Tequila. You deserve what you get or got. You should have been embarrassed to even attend the wedding.
2006-07-25 08:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you were and so was her 'friend'. If she needed to be coaxed by alcohol, then you totally took advantage of her (and so did her friend). That's just wrong. And you wonder why she wouldn't speak to you at the reception? Man, I hope you're not that dense! Also, why the heck did you go to her bachelorette party?!? That whole situation sounds planned to me, and that was really low.
2006-07-25 06:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by loloshorty9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it sounds like a dream of yours...wet dream perhaps.
Secondly, if that is the truth...why would you ask such an idiotic question as to whether or not it's wrong?? How about you answer that question when you find out your new bride "banged" her exboyfriend hours before marrying you.
2006-07-25 07:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mere fact that you would even ask such a question lets me know that you have no understanding about life. How would you feel if you were going to be married and your bride to be and another man did such an act. I feel this marriage will not have a chance. It will more than likely be just another statistic.
2006-07-25 05:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Janis G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say yeah - and her friend should be ashamed of herself. She probably didn't speak to you because she knew that you could ruin EVERYTHING for her. If her new husband ever found out it would probably over if he couldn't already tell on the wedding night that she recently got it done.
2006-07-25 07:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was know ring yet an it looks as if it was that you both did it with help from her friends at any point in time did any one say know that's were the thing of if there was any wrong
2006-07-25 04:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by longtime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are at fault. What's even worse is that you took advantage of her while she was under the influence of alcohol!
2006-07-25 16:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by english_argie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad boy...you should be punished. You know my friend did the same thing to me just on the day of my exam. I hate him.
2006-07-25 05:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by handyplast007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you were, you both were in the wrong for this. She should have known better no matter what drinks she had. You both were wrong in this situation.
2006-07-25 05:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. You offered and she accepted, that is something SHE needs to live with. She probably didn't speak to you because she was ashamed of her actions. What's done is done.
2006-07-25 05:44:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋