2006-07-26 10:08:38 · 21 answers · asked by jesscq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Cherish each other and remember that you should never go to bed mad at each other.
2006-07-26 14:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the biggest things in love is that we have someone who makes us feel good about ourselves. Thus each partner should make sure they keep making the other person feel good about themself.
Also part of the dating process is seducing each other..never stop that.
And if there is some thing that you don't like about each other- it doesn't get better with marriage......in fact it gets worse. So, if there are things you don't like about your mate.make sure it is something that you can live with, because marriage is not the same as magic.
Agree to daily have a 10 second hug and at least a 5 second kiss a day.
Never degrade or blame each other.
2006-07-26 19:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the lines of communication open
Speak up about little things before they become big problems.
Say "I love you" often.
Don't stay mad - Don't ever go to bed angry
Don't use sex to gloss over problems - Make up sex is a big mistake ...
Don't forget that you had separate lives before you met... Keep in touch with old friends, don't let being married take you away from the rest of the world. Keep your separate friends and separate interests.
Agree on how to budget money. If there is a difference on how the two of you approach spending sit down together and draw up a household budget and practice it.
2006-07-26 17:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by nobodysangel_nobodysfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindness is the key to a happy marriage. You can communicate your way into a divorce, but if you both come from kindness, your lives together will be happy and long-lasting.
Love is a choice. Make that choice every day when you wake up.
2006-07-26 17:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember what made you fall in love in the first place, communication is the key to solving everything, agree to disagree, compromise, remember you married each other not the in-laws, never go to bed mad, sex solves nothing only distracts you from the real issue, make time for you as well as time for each other, and last always respect the others wishes and dreams and encourage them to achieve them.
2006-07-26 18:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a couple that has been married 64 years this past April. Chet and Pauline Dinger of Oskaloosa, KS. (He's 86 and She's 85)
When asked, she replied "Be your partners best friend and listen and respect eachother. But most of all, you have to have a sense of humor."
When he was asked, he said "What'd she say?"
2006-07-26 23:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by ktltel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just shack up for a few years and save the cost of divorce.......or......talk about each others dreams ambitions, goals, plans for children, future, religion BEFORE you make the leap....could save alot of grief in the future p.s. always be honest to and respectful of your spuose and on the off days be sure to remind yourself why you fell in love in the first place.....good luck
2006-07-26 23:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by chereeder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never take each other for granted and always try to listen to each other's opinion and along with love you must respect one another.
2006-07-26 17:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by maggiemay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
Loyalty
Respect
2006-07-26 20:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by Milkman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my single bridesmaids told me "whenever he gets on your last nerve, remember how lucky you are that you have someone there to get on your last nerve." and i was told several times to think back to what i loved about him on our wedding day on those days when the wedding is a distant memory and life is crashing in all around.
2006-07-26 17:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by erika w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋